"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friday night..whos going out?

frivolousz21

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I am tired..from last night..gonna get off work at 5..then get a long NAP.

then out to start bootcamp...im comibining weeks 1-3..for 3 weeks...im going to start atleast 100 convos with girls i want to date within 3 weeks..clubs, bars, malls, walmart, school..dont care.

I wont ever master it..until I practice and practice!!

what about you guys
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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big party on campus, I got invited knowing some of the guys running the thing.


I am trying to work out a deal to go party at an all girls school, but my friends are lazy bahstids, so that may take some time to work out. But i want to die and say I have been partying at an all girls school.
 

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lol you said walmart, me and my friends go up there all the time just to talk to girls. Walmart's the new mall
 

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when u turn 22

I see more single hotties my age at walmart than the mall around here
 

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
when u turn 22

I see more single hotties my age at walmart than the mall around here
lol..I gotta check out walmart sometime soon.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol that's true guys. the other day i was walking in walmart then i did ec with these 2 girls (there were sisters) then i lost them . i went to the cash and when i was at the cash, they came up and we started talking, i'm goin out with the younger girl on sunday haha
 

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On Friday nights, I work 99% of the time. Tonight is a fluke. I got off early tonight, so I have no idea what to do with myself.
 

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Originally posted by Phantasmal
On Friday nights, I work 99% of the time. Tonight is a fluke. I got off early tonight, so I have no idea what to do with myself.

Your 22 years old, go to a bar and practice. Go out for a change, the outside world isn't that bad of a place.

You don't know how bad I wanna be 21. I can only go to 18 and overs (no alochol and less chance of taking someone home at the end of the night).

I got invited to a frat party. Later.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh, hey now, I appreciate the sentiment and I shall do what you say, it just doesn't usually come until later. I usually get off work at 11ish, and my buddies I usually go out with are working 'til 10. But as of now, i'm just sort of sitting around.
 
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