"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Friday At The Gym Part 2

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I'm sure some of you guys remember me posting last Friday that I went up and made a super cold approach on this really cute girl at the gym last week. I don't consider the gym a hunting ground normally. Anyway one week later and I haven't seen the girl until she again showed up at the same time. She sees me and acts kind of stand ofish and shy after I initially wave to her on the treadmill. While I'm doing Butterflies she walks completely around the equiptment and comes by me. I start talking asking her about her week etc., girl was very shy for some reason. Cool. I then didn't bother her again until I was about to leave. I walked up to her and told her that I hated to interrupt her set but I wanted to get her number and hang out sometime. She replied with "Sure". I then had to get a pin and told her since I only pick up girls at gas stations I'd be right back. She laughed.

OK, so I come back and get her number and then she starts asking me what I was doing during the weekend. I took this as a you can call me sooner then later. I replied hanging out with friends. I then asked if she watched the Sopranos. She said she's tried and I replied with maybe I'll teach you sometime. We then partied with have a good weekend. I guess I'll call her Sunday and line something up for Monday or Tuesday. Awsome Firday indeed.
 

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Good stuff man! I missed your other thread though, how did you cold approach her?
 

Disco

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the cold approach was very cold. i just went up told her i noticed her in the gym before and that i wanted to introduce myself. we did then i went back to my sets. 10 minutes later she walked over to me. i'm going to try to play this one different than my old days though b/c going out with women for the soul purpose of sex isn't my thing these days.
 
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