"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Freshmen in new city

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I just moved to a new city. This is going to be my first year in high school. I was just wondering how I can fit in and make new friends? This is the first situation i have had like this because Ive been living for around 9 years in the same area. Can u guys helpn me out?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Plane

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Meet poeple at your school, try too meet girls at the clubs, get some dude friends somewhere(basketball courts, or anyother sports you play) then you can hangout and do things with them, hopefully osme of them goes to the same school as you

Just go out and meet people!
 

Omega

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Talk. To. Everyone

In the lunch lines, between classes, in the hallways, in your classroom, outside the school, on the street, in the store.

Talk. To. Everyone.
 

JSH

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echo: talk to everyone who you can, it makes it much easier, people like being talked to
 

Heizen

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You have a unique chance ahead of you. You can reinvent your old self into what ever you want, and these people will only know the new you.

So go out, talk to EVERYONE before you get a rep and get stuck in a group, and have fun. Make lots of good first impressions with the ladies ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Plane

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Originally posted by Heizen
You have a unique chance ahead of you. You can reinvent your old self into what ever you want, and these people will only know the new you.

So go out, talk to EVERYONE before you get a rep and get stuck in a group, and have fun. Make lots of good first impressions with the ladies ;)
YES YES YES
I did this at a summer camp, its much more easy too start getting girls if they think your a pimp, if they dont think you are it will be a lil harder, start out strong!
 
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