Freshman boy and a Junior Girl

[chaosxd1]

So yesterday i was just chilling with my friends pregaming/ ponging because the girls in my grade were at some lacrosse party. After we played, we walked to a girls house where the some of the girls lacrosse were. After playing flip cup, watching the basketball game, etc, people from different grades started to show up and things were getting fun.

Then i saw a girl that didnt come to my school enter through the door. Now im usually not that interested in girls at the first sight but when i saw this girl i was like :O. She was cute/ hot and seemed like a nice girl (I'll refer to her as GIRL). Everytime i had a little glance at her, it seemed like she was looking at me nd then turning away. Maybe i was buzzed but i swear she was looking at me. It seemed like she was interested in me but i was still confused. I didnt really know how to start a conversation because she was with another junior from my school (i'll just call her BRINGER) who brought her, so i just tried to stay a little close to her.

After around an hour later when it was getting late,my friend asked the BRINGER for a piece of gum as both of them were going up the stairs. She refused but the GIRL told us that she had gum and walked back down to give us a piece. Anyways to end this quickly my friend and i had a little chat just asking whether she knew people we knew from her school and stuff. I got her first name too.

Idk y but i just started to have a likeing for her so i searched her up on Facebook and sent a message like "hey your the one that gave me the gum right? it saved my life...."
she respond "haha yess im glad!" and accpeted my friend request.

Now i reaaally want to start a conversation but i dont know how i should......start it, if she would care that im a freshman, and if she is single or not!

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

send her a message on fb and say something like...hey you are that girl that couldn't stop looking at me at the party. its risky but taking risks is part of this...

 

[novaknight]

Whats the worst thats gonna happen if she doesnt respond favorably?

 

[chaosxd1]

im just worried that if ppl in my school (my school is small and has about 900 kids - grades 7-12) find out they'd think im a creeper and my friends since they saw her too and they think shes hot....

btw im not looking at her like my friends do by saying that "they'd tap tat" and stuff.....she seemed really nice and i want to get to know her better

one more thing....is the junior and freshman thing wierd and idk if she's SINGLE?!?!?!? :O

 

[MusicMan450]

Nah, my friend is a sophomore and he dated a senior girl. I'd give her at least an 8. Just do it bro

 

[EvilAgenda]

People in your school won't question you or your game when they see you with a cute junior girl snuggled up against your shoulder.

If I were you, I'd stay away from facebook. That's not the way you want to make a first impression when you talk to her.

 

[chaosxd1]

@EvilAgenda

yea i sorta want to talk to her straight up too...like get to know her and stuff
but i dont have her number and like i said b4 she doesnt go to my school.
so facebooks the only option.....

 

[Mr.Freestyler19]

if is your only option then just do it before its too late..

 

[EvilAgenda]

Don't be limited by this facebook way of thinking. Think about how greatest don juans of the 1800's did things.

Befriend one of her best friends (the one who isn't nearly as good looking, but who has a boyfriend). She will introduce you to your target.

OR

Happen to be "passing by" her school on your motorcycle as she is walking out with her friends. (If you have a motorcycle, a leather jacket, and some black shades, that image is an instant wetness for high school girls).

OR

Literally call her school and sound like you are her parent. Tell the school that blah blah has a doctor's appointment and chaosxd1 who happens to be "her brother" will come to pick her up 30 minutes before the school is out. <-- you have to be absolutely sure she remembers checking you out.

Patience is one of the greatest weapons a don juan has. An idiot will rush, without a plan or a strategy, and will fail. And right now, you are leaning towards rushing in without a plan or a strategy. You only see facebook as your only way of communicating with her. You aren't thinking outside the box. You are going to do what hundreds of guys in high school are doing. You will crush and you will burn.

 

[chaosxd1]

Don't be limited by this facebook way of thinking. Think about how greatest don juans of the 1800's did things.

Befriend one of her best friends (the one who isn't nearly as good looking, but who has a boyfriend). She will introduce you to your target.

OR

Happen to be "passing by" her school on your motorcycle as she is walking out with her friends. (If you have a motorcycle, a leather jacket, and some black shades, that image is an instant wetness for high school girls).

OR

Literally call her school and sound like you are her parent. Tell the school that blah blah has a doctor's appointment and chaosxd1 who happens to be "her brother" will come to pick her up 30 minutes before the school is out. <-- you have to be absolutely sure she remembers checking you out.

Patience is one of the greatest weapons a don juan has. An idiot will rush, without a plan or a strategy, and will fail. And right now, you are leaning towards rushing in without a plan or a strategy. You only see facebook as your only way of communicating with her. You aren't thinking outside the box. You are going to do what hundreds of guys in high school are doing. You will crush and you will burn.

im only 15.....i dont have a car....-.-

 

[EvilAgenda]

You can get a permit for a motorcycle when you are 15

good luck, chaos, your best weapon is your own mind.

 

[chaosxd1]

should i formspring her first just to ask if shes single or not...dont want to invade her privacy and make myslef look like a creep...??

 

[Craig Reeves]

So yesterday i was just chilling with my friends pregaming/ ponging because the girls in my grade were at some lacrosse party. After we played, we walked to a girls house where the some of the girls lacrosse were. After playing flip cup, watching the basketball game, etc, people from different grades started to show up and things were getting fun.

Then i saw a girl that didnt come to my school enter through the door. Now im usually not that interested in girls at the first sight but when i saw this girl i was like :O. She was cute/ hot and seemed like a nice girl (I'll refer to her as GIRL). Everytime i had a little glance at her, it seemed like she was looking at me nd then turning away. Maybe i was buzzed but i swear she was looking at me. It seemed like she was interested in me but i was still confused. I didnt really know how to start a conversation because she was with another junior from my school (i'll just call her BRINGER) who brought her, so i just tried to stay a little close to her.

After around an hour later when it was getting late,my friend asked the BRINGER for a piece of gum as both of them were going up the stairs. She refused but the GIRL told us that she had gum and walked back down to give us a piece. Anyways to end this quickly my friend and i had a little chat just asking whether she knew people we knew from her school and stuff. I got her first name too.

Idk y but i just started to have a likeing for her so i searched her up on Facebook and sent a message like "hey your the one that gave me the gum right? it saved my life...."
she respond "haha yess im glad!" and accpeted my friend request.

Now i reaaally want to start a conversation but i dont know how i should......start it, if she would care that im a freshman, and if she is single or not!

14 years old and drinking.....talk about a boy trying to do what men do...