Freshly Single... Now what?

[Higherbeing]

Alright, last night I came accross this site and started to read some stuff, and definately learned allot of stuff that i didn't know, but now I am trying to figure out how I can use the newly learned strategys to my daily life. Let me give you guys a little insight on what has happened and where i stand right now.

Two weeks ago me and my girl friend broke up after being together for nearly 1 1/2 years. At first i was heartbroken, but then I realized this is my chance to have the fun in my life I never had before. I am a very shy guy when it comes to talking to girls, even though my job requires me too. I sell cell phones for a living, and I'm damn good at it too. But I have noticed that is the only thing I can talk about to a girl and not studder or lock up which i tend to do on other subjects. Yet not every situation allows me to start a conversation about cell phones which kinda shuts me down on my game. Also another problem of mine is breaking the ice between me and the girl I am talking to.

There is a question i would like to ask you guys, how do you start a conversation with a girl that you do not know and just happen to see in the mall or on the street? What do you say? I wouldn't even know to start.

I am excited to learn these new techniques because there is a tanning bed right next door to my store, and we're sepperated by a glass wall, so every day I see these beautiful girls walkin by, but have no clue how to holla at them...

I would greatly appreciate it if you guys could give me some pointers without flamming me... thanks in advance

 

[nishbuk]

Welcome.

I just got dumped too. Here's something that you and I should read from begining to end:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Read all of it.
This is basically what the entire site is based upon. Good luck.

 

[realmz1]

I liked one DJ's post here....start of with the line "do I know you"...thats seems a very inviting for conversation....but knock off the cell phone bable....try to verse yourself in daily events...fashion...comment on the gerl herself...clothing,eyes, overall appearance....and the DJ bible does work!