"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Freshly Single... Now what?

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Alright, last night I came accross this site and started to read some stuff, and definately learned allot of stuff that i didn't know, but now I am trying to figure out how I can use the newly learned strategys to my daily life. Let me give you guys a little insight on what has happened and where i stand right now.

Two weeks ago me and my girl friend broke up after being together for nearly 1 1/2 years. At first i was heartbroken, but then I realized this is my chance to have the fun in my life I never had before. I am a very shy guy when it comes to talking to girls, even though my job requires me too. I sell cell phones for a living, and I'm damn good at it too. But I have noticed that is the only thing I can talk about to a girl and not studder or lock up which i tend to do on other subjects. Yet not every situation allows me to start a conversation about cell phones which kinda shuts me down on my game. Also another problem of mine is breaking the ice between me and the girl I am talking to.

There is a question i would like to ask you guys, how do you start a conversation with a girl that you do not know and just happen to see in the mall or on the street? What do you say? I wouldn't even know to start.

I am excited to learn these new techniques because there is a tanning bed right next door to my store, and we're sepperated by a glass wall, so every day I see these beautiful girls walkin by, but have no clue how to holla at them...

I would greatly appreciate it if you guys could give me some pointers without flamming me... thanks in advance
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Welcome. :)

I just got dumped too. Here's something that you and I should read from begining to end:

http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/

Read all of it.
This is basically what the entire site is based upon. Good luck. :)
 
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I liked one DJ's post here....start of with the line "do I know you"...thats seems a very inviting for conversation....but knock off the cell phone bable....try to verse yourself in daily events...fashion...comment on the gerl herself...clothing,eyes, overall appearance....and the DJ bible does work!
 
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