"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Like the title says, I seem to be on instant messanger a lot. The reason for this is I talk to my friends who I dont go to school with. Naturally the conflict arises when I notice that a girl I could possibly game is online. Taking the general attitudes I see on this board, I know I am better off waiting till I can meet her in person, or calling her on the phone.

I ofen find that online conversations can either go very good or excessively boring. Is it better to completely ignore the fact that shes online or risk her losing interest or throwing you in the friend zone after some conversing?
The same also goes for when a girl IM's me

It almost seems like once a girl has my SN im stuck in this no win situation where im forced into trying to work some game when im really just in a mood to chill and talk with my bros

does anyone have any suggestions?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lol, I kind of have this dilemma too sometimes. I guess you could make yourself invisible to her...Or you could talk to her and when you get tired of the conversation just say you have to leave, and go "away" but continue to talk to your friends.
 
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The way I see it is this. If she's on, and she initiates a conversation then talk. Try to get in a DHV story, but make sure you got more stuff for when you meet. Once the conversation level reaches it's peak suddenly make yourself invisible to her/go away with no reasons as to why as Shocker rightly said. That way you leave yourself on her mind as she'll be wondering why you had to go, and why you didn't say bye.
 
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