"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Like the title says, I seem to be on instant messanger a lot. The reason for this is I talk to my friends who I dont go to school with. Naturally the conflict arises when I notice that a girl I could possibly game is online. Taking the general attitudes I see on this board, I know I am better off waiting till I can meet her in person, or calling her on the phone.

I ofen find that online conversations can either go very good or excessively boring. Is it better to completely ignore the fact that shes online or risk her losing interest or throwing you in the friend zone after some conversing?
The same also goes for when a girl IM's me

It almost seems like once a girl has my SN im stuck in this no win situation where im forced into trying to work some game when im really just in a mood to chill and talk with my bros

does anyone have any suggestions?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Lol, I kind of have this dilemma too sometimes. I guess you could make yourself invisible to her...Or you could talk to her and when you get tired of the conversation just say you have to leave, and go "away" but continue to talk to your friends.
 
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The way I see it is this. If she's on, and she initiates a conversation then talk. Try to get in a DHV story, but make sure you got more stuff for when you meet. Once the conversation level reaches it's peak suddenly make yourself invisible to her/go away with no reasons as to why as Shocker rightly said. That way you leave yourself on her mind as she'll be wondering why you had to go, and why you didn't say bye.
 
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