"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hello,

I posted on this topic yesterday but for some reason the thread disappeared after I read a few responses. Strange.

Question: I'm from the States but I will be living in France next year. What do people out there know about French women, or gaming in France?

I appreciate the help,

Izza
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok, i remember the what the reply the poster of your topic said. He said, "French Girls are usually materialistic. Try to just talk to them and spit your game WITHOUT kissing their hand and they prolly will go wild, as most guys in France do that." But it doesn't mean u can't take their hand and hold it. ;)
 

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One word about European women (western at least), don't try using the game playing and player BS that we do in the states. You need to be an authentic DJ with personality and charisma to get anywhere. Substance plays a larger part than presentation.
 

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French Women .. are hairy. :D
 

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French women are very....very easy to go. Accoriding to some statistics, the french women is who fu*s more in europe.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I had a french girlfriend for 4 years in my twenties. Great girl! Wow the sex with her!

What I can advise you to watch for, is not to behave like the obnoxious american in Paris. Play it low profile because americans have a bad reputation in quite a few countries for being too much «there» and being too loud. Don't trow the money around like you were buying the natives. If you do, you will get the cold shoulder.

Europeans get quite a vast cultural education in history, the arts, the classics, so be prudent in projecting the american know it all attitude. You might just get disdain from women if you show it.

From my experience, french woman are great. They are open and not stuck up at all. Ah that I would be back at your age and having your opportunity! If you play it right, you are bound to have some great fun.
 

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Originally posted by ARK
French Women .. are hairy. :D

Hahahaha, you've got a point.

I went to high school in Chicago with this one girl who never shaved her armpits and wore sleeveless shirts all the time. Dude it was f*cking nasty. But strangely, when I met hot unshaved French women in Montreal it didn't bother me at all. I guess it's all about context - but I agree that if it's an American girl it is disgusting to see those armpit hairs hanging out.

Izza
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
One word about European women (western at least), don't try using the game playing and player BS that we do in the states. You need to be an authentic DJ with personality and charisma to get anywhere. Substance plays a larger part than presentation.
Can you expand more on this?
 

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Can you expand more on this?
Here in the states, women are drawn to the flash of man. The way he is perceived by society. Power, presence, looks and so on. That's why many of them swoon over movie actors. It makes sense since their job is to emote power, presence and attractiveness. This is why the whole KINO, C/F, net hits and the rest works well on women here. It all about style and presentation.

European women on the other hand (I've only lived in western Europe), They aren't caught up in the lifestyle of women here. They aren't smitten by all the flash. Even though they enjoy men with style, it's more about substance for them. It's about who the guy is internally and not just what he emotes to the world.

However, I have noticed that European men are more authentic than men in the states. They never fall into the situation of whether to be a DJ or not and men do here. They are who they are, no pretending what so ever. That is what I've found as what European women find attractive.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Here in the states, women are drawn to the flash of man. The way he is perceived by society. Power, presence, looks and so on. That's why many of them swoon over movie actors. It makes sense since their job is to emote power, presence and attractiveness. This is why the whole KINO, C/F, net hits and the rest works well on women here. It all about style and presentation.

European women on the other hand (I've only lived in western Europe), They aren't caught up in the lifestyle of women here. They aren't smitten by all the flash. Even though they enjoy men with style, it's more about substance for them. It's about who the guy is internally and not just what he emotes to the world.

However, I have noticed that European men are more authentic than men in the states. They never fall into the situation of whether to be a DJ or not and men do here. They are who they are, no pretending what so ever. That is what I've found as what European women find attractive.
Hey, that sounds pretty good to me. I've never been one for ostentation.

Izza
 
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