"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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French Women

izza

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Hello,

I posted on this topic yesterday but for some reason the thread disappeared after I read a few responses. Strange.

Question: I'm from the States but I will be living in France next year. What do people out there know about French women, or gaming in France?

I appreciate the help,

Izza
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok, i remember the what the reply the poster of your topic said. He said, "French Girls are usually materialistic. Try to just talk to them and spit your game WITHOUT kissing their hand and they prolly will go wild, as most guys in France do that." But it doesn't mean u can't take their hand and hold it. ;)
 

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One word about European women (western at least), don't try using the game playing and player BS that we do in the states. You need to be an authentic DJ with personality and charisma to get anywhere. Substance plays a larger part than presentation.
 

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French Women .. are hairy. :D
 

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French women are very....very easy to go. Accoriding to some statistics, the french women is who fu*s more in europe.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I had a french girlfriend for 4 years in my twenties. Great girl! Wow the sex with her!

What I can advise you to watch for, is not to behave like the obnoxious american in Paris. Play it low profile because americans have a bad reputation in quite a few countries for being too much «there» and being too loud. Don't trow the money around like you were buying the natives. If you do, you will get the cold shoulder.

Europeans get quite a vast cultural education in history, the arts, the classics, so be prudent in projecting the american know it all attitude. You might just get disdain from women if you show it.

From my experience, french woman are great. They are open and not stuck up at all. Ah that I would be back at your age and having your opportunity! If you play it right, you are bound to have some great fun.
 

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Originally posted by ARK
French Women .. are hairy. :D

Hahahaha, you've got a point.

I went to high school in Chicago with this one girl who never shaved her armpits and wore sleeveless shirts all the time. Dude it was f*cking nasty. But strangely, when I met hot unshaved French women in Montreal it didn't bother me at all. I guess it's all about context - but I agree that if it's an American girl it is disgusting to see those armpit hairs hanging out.

Izza
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
One word about European women (western at least), don't try using the game playing and player BS that we do in the states. You need to be an authentic DJ with personality and charisma to get anywhere. Substance plays a larger part than presentation.
Can you expand more on this?
 

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Can you expand more on this?
Here in the states, women are drawn to the flash of man. The way he is perceived by society. Power, presence, looks and so on. That's why many of them swoon over movie actors. It makes sense since their job is to emote power, presence and attractiveness. This is why the whole KINO, C/F, net hits and the rest works well on women here. It all about style and presentation.

European women on the other hand (I've only lived in western Europe), They aren't caught up in the lifestyle of women here. They aren't smitten by all the flash. Even though they enjoy men with style, it's more about substance for them. It's about who the guy is internally and not just what he emotes to the world.

However, I have noticed that European men are more authentic than men in the states. They never fall into the situation of whether to be a DJ or not and men do here. They are who they are, no pretending what so ever. That is what I've found as what European women find attractive.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
Here in the states, women are drawn to the flash of man. The way he is perceived by society. Power, presence, looks and so on. That's why many of them swoon over movie actors. It makes sense since their job is to emote power, presence and attractiveness. This is why the whole KINO, C/F, net hits and the rest works well on women here. It all about style and presentation.

European women on the other hand (I've only lived in western Europe), They aren't caught up in the lifestyle of women here. They aren't smitten by all the flash. Even though they enjoy men with style, it's more about substance for them. It's about who the guy is internally and not just what he emotes to the world.

However, I have noticed that European men are more authentic than men in the states. They never fall into the situation of whether to be a DJ or not and men do here. They are who they are, no pretending what so ever. That is what I've found as what European women find attractive.
Hey, that sounds pretty good to me. I've never been one for ostentation.

Izza
 
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