"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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french women are so damn sexy

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just as a whole french women. they have a different, very effeminate look to them. soft oilive skin, puffy lips, big eyes. plus the french accent/language is pretty bad ass.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Je sais! Elles peuvent parler tres cochonne en francais aussi... c'est chaud.

par exemple, ""C'est trop bon, ton doigt dans mon cul, j'ai hâte que y mette ta queue"

La vie c'est belle! lol
 

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my wife spent about 6 years in frace working at horse tracks before she moved here to the states. in fact when i met her she had only; been here like 2 months. speaks perfect french. has actually taught me french and I speak it pretty well enough to where I would fee l comfortable in paris or something getting around. lol it comes in handy quite often as we can say things we want to say to each other around other people that can't understand us. my little brother and me do the same thing as we both speak fluent sign language and can say things to each other when we want to when other people are listening (our great grandmother is deaf/mute so everyone on my dad's side of the family knows sign language)

my real hope is to teach our son both languages
 

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French girls have a different lifestyle and priorities from what I've read.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/15/fashion/15French.html said:
The No. 1 response to my informal survey of Frenchwomen about the years of magical aging is not gaining weight. Ever. If a Frenchwoman happens to see an additional kilogram or two on her bathroom scale, she will do whatever is necessary to force the needle back where it belongs. “I keep my weight steady, no ups and downs,” Ms. Caron said. “I avoid all excess.” She claims to eat all kinds of food in small — her friends say minuscule — portions, and she doesn’t drink alcohol. It’s not so much that “French Women Don’t Get Fat,” as the title of Mireille Guiliano’s best seller had it. Rather, Frenchwomen won’t get fat.
Peer pressure obviously can work both ways... if you're at the drive-through window with your family or friends, you learn to eat differently than say if you grow up cooking. The work week is shorter there and that might promote a healthier lifestyle.

I may be able to get German citizenship (it's complicated as I've served in a foreign army), if so France would definitely interest me and it's possible as its part of the EU. Plus I don't think all that gender war trash has as much bite in foreign cultures either, which is a good thing. Whenever I meet euro girls I'm usually pretty impressed, -- for me they always seem to be a bit more empathetic and fair.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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