Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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french women are so damn sexy

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just as a whole french women. they have a different, very effeminate look to them. soft oilive skin, puffy lips, big eyes. plus the french accent/language is pretty bad ass.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Je sais! Elles peuvent parler tres cochonne en francais aussi... c'est chaud.

par exemple, ""C'est trop bon, ton doigt dans mon cul, j'ai hâte que y mette ta queue"

La vie c'est belle! lol
 

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my wife spent about 6 years in frace working at horse tracks before she moved here to the states. in fact when i met her she had only; been here like 2 months. speaks perfect french. has actually taught me french and I speak it pretty well enough to where I would fee l comfortable in paris or something getting around. lol it comes in handy quite often as we can say things we want to say to each other around other people that can't understand us. my little brother and me do the same thing as we both speak fluent sign language and can say things to each other when we want to when other people are listening (our great grandmother is deaf/mute so everyone on my dad's side of the family knows sign language)

my real hope is to teach our son both languages
 

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French girls have a different lifestyle and priorities from what I've read.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/15/fashion/15French.html said:
The No. 1 response to my informal survey of Frenchwomen about the years of magical aging is not gaining weight. Ever. If a Frenchwoman happens to see an additional kilogram or two on her bathroom scale, she will do whatever is necessary to force the needle back where it belongs. “I keep my weight steady, no ups and downs,” Ms. Caron said. “I avoid all excess.” She claims to eat all kinds of food in small — her friends say minuscule — portions, and she doesn’t drink alcohol. It’s not so much that “French Women Don’t Get Fat,” as the title of Mireille Guiliano’s best seller had it. Rather, Frenchwomen won’t get fat.
Peer pressure obviously can work both ways... if you're at the drive-through window with your family or friends, you learn to eat differently than say if you grow up cooking. The work week is shorter there and that might promote a healthier lifestyle.

I may be able to get German citizenship (it's complicated as I've served in a foreign army), if so France would definitely interest me and it's possible as its part of the EU. Plus I don't think all that gender war trash has as much bite in foreign cultures either, which is a good thing. Whenever I meet euro girls I'm usually pretty impressed, -- for me they always seem to be a bit more empathetic and fair.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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