"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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french women are so damn sexy

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just as a whole french women. they have a different, very effeminate look to them. soft oilive skin, puffy lips, big eyes. plus the french accent/language is pretty bad ass.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Je sais! Elles peuvent parler tres cochonne en francais aussi... c'est chaud.

par exemple, ""C'est trop bon, ton doigt dans mon cul, j'ai hâte que y mette ta queue"

La vie c'est belle! lol
 

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my wife spent about 6 years in frace working at horse tracks before she moved here to the states. in fact when i met her she had only; been here like 2 months. speaks perfect french. has actually taught me french and I speak it pretty well enough to where I would fee l comfortable in paris or something getting around. lol it comes in handy quite often as we can say things we want to say to each other around other people that can't understand us. my little brother and me do the same thing as we both speak fluent sign language and can say things to each other when we want to when other people are listening (our great grandmother is deaf/mute so everyone on my dad's side of the family knows sign language)

my real hope is to teach our son both languages
 

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French girls have a different lifestyle and priorities from what I've read.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/07/15/fashion/15French.html said:
The No. 1 response to my informal survey of Frenchwomen about the years of magical aging is not gaining weight. Ever. If a Frenchwoman happens to see an additional kilogram or two on her bathroom scale, she will do whatever is necessary to force the needle back where it belongs. “I keep my weight steady, no ups and downs,” Ms. Caron said. “I avoid all excess.” She claims to eat all kinds of food in small — her friends say minuscule — portions, and she doesn’t drink alcohol. It’s not so much that “French Women Don’t Get Fat,” as the title of Mireille Guiliano’s best seller had it. Rather, Frenchwomen won’t get fat.
Peer pressure obviously can work both ways... if you're at the drive-through window with your family or friends, you learn to eat differently than say if you grow up cooking. The work week is shorter there and that might promote a healthier lifestyle.

I may be able to get German citizenship (it's complicated as I've served in a foreign army), if so France would definitely interest me and it's possible as its part of the EU. Plus I don't think all that gender war trash has as much bite in foreign cultures either, which is a good thing. Whenever I meet euro girls I'm usually pretty impressed, -- for me they always seem to be a bit more empathetic and fair.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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