"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Alright so for the first time in my life I have a chick that really likes me. She's about a 6.8 and she sends me **** like "i want ur bod". Shes a virgin like i am. so last time we hung out we went to a bonfire and she wanted to go on a walk on the beach so im like sure. so we walk down the beach and talk for a while and its a perfect time to make out with her for the first time but i just didnt feel like it. i knew she wanted me too and she wanted to go skinny dipping but i was just like maybe later. i just wasnt feeling her at all. i just dont think shes hot. there is nothing that makes me want to get with her. the only thing is i could use her for experience but i just dont feel like tapping her, you know? so wat would u guys do if you were me? would u tap an average/below average so u wouldnt be a virgin anymore. cuz im 18 and im sick of being a virgin i want to have sex so bad but she just isnt hot enough. so wat would u guys do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So your question is, "Should I lower my standards just to lose my virginity?"

I think you can answer that yourself.
 

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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
Alright so for the first time in my life I have a chick that really likes me. She's about a 6.8 and she sends me **** like "i want ur bod". Shes a virgin like i am. so last time we hung out we went to a bonfire and she wanted to go on a walk on the beach so im like sure. so we walk down the beach and talk for a while and its a perfect time to make out with her for the first time but i just didnt feel like it. i knew she wanted me too and she wanted to go skinny dipping but i was just like maybe later. i just wasnt feeling her at all. i just dont think shes hot. there is nothing that makes me want to get with her. the only thing is i could use her for experience but i just dont feel like tapping her, you know? so wat would u guys do if you were me? would u tap an average/below average so u wouldnt be a virgin anymore. cuz im 18 and im sick of being a virgin i want to have sex so bad but she just isnt hot enough. so wat would u guys do?

Your contradicting yourself a bit with this question. You say flat out that your not physically attracted to her, but you want to lose the v-card. When a girl really wants you, the way this chick wants you, they end up going the extra mile to please you. And who knows, you might change your mind on how you feel about her once you actually fuvk her. On one hand it would be great for you to get some experience so you could become more confident and start gaming hotter girls, but on the other hand its pretty low to take advantage of a chick and give her false hope about your feelings just for a piece of ass.




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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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