"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alright so for the first time in my life I have a chick that really likes me. She's about a 6.8 and she sends me **** like "i want ur bod". Shes a virgin like i am. so last time we hung out we went to a bonfire and she wanted to go on a walk on the beach so im like sure. so we walk down the beach and talk for a while and its a perfect time to make out with her for the first time but i just didnt feel like it. i knew she wanted me too and she wanted to go skinny dipping but i was just like maybe later. i just wasnt feeling her at all. i just dont think shes hot. there is nothing that makes me want to get with her. the only thing is i could use her for experience but i just dont feel like tapping her, you know? so wat would u guys do if you were me? would u tap an average/below average so u wouldnt be a virgin anymore. cuz im 18 and im sick of being a virgin i want to have sex so bad but she just isnt hot enough. so wat would u guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So your question is, "Should I lower my standards just to lose my virginity?"

I think you can answer that yourself.
 

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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
Alright so for the first time in my life I have a chick that really likes me. She's about a 6.8 and she sends me **** like "i want ur bod". Shes a virgin like i am. so last time we hung out we went to a bonfire and she wanted to go on a walk on the beach so im like sure. so we walk down the beach and talk for a while and its a perfect time to make out with her for the first time but i just didnt feel like it. i knew she wanted me too and she wanted to go skinny dipping but i was just like maybe later. i just wasnt feeling her at all. i just dont think shes hot. there is nothing that makes me want to get with her. the only thing is i could use her for experience but i just dont feel like tapping her, you know? so wat would u guys do if you were me? would u tap an average/below average so u wouldnt be a virgin anymore. cuz im 18 and im sick of being a virgin i want to have sex so bad but she just isnt hot enough. so wat would u guys do?

Your contradicting yourself a bit with this question. You say flat out that your not physically attracted to her, but you want to lose the v-card. When a girl really wants you, the way this chick wants you, they end up going the extra mile to please you. And who knows, you might change your mind on how you feel about her once you actually fuvk her. On one hand it would be great for you to get some experience so you could become more confident and start gaming hotter girls, but on the other hand its pretty low to take advantage of a chick and give her false hope about your feelings just for a piece of ass.




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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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