"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LaDanian Tomlinson

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Alright so for the first time in my life I have a chick that really likes me. She's about a 6.8 and she sends me **** like "i want ur bod". Shes a virgin like i am. so last time we hung out we went to a bonfire and she wanted to go on a walk on the beach so im like sure. so we walk down the beach and talk for a while and its a perfect time to make out with her for the first time but i just didnt feel like it. i knew she wanted me too and she wanted to go skinny dipping but i was just like maybe later. i just wasnt feeling her at all. i just dont think shes hot. there is nothing that makes me want to get with her. the only thing is i could use her for experience but i just dont feel like tapping her, you know? so wat would u guys do if you were me? would u tap an average/below average so u wouldnt be a virgin anymore. cuz im 18 and im sick of being a virgin i want to have sex so bad but she just isnt hot enough. so wat would u guys do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So your question is, "Should I lower my standards just to lose my virginity?"

I think you can answer that yourself.
 
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LaDanian Tomlinson said:
Alright so for the first time in my life I have a chick that really likes me. She's about a 6.8 and she sends me **** like "i want ur bod". Shes a virgin like i am. so last time we hung out we went to a bonfire and she wanted to go on a walk on the beach so im like sure. so we walk down the beach and talk for a while and its a perfect time to make out with her for the first time but i just didnt feel like it. i knew she wanted me too and she wanted to go skinny dipping but i was just like maybe later. i just wasnt feeling her at all. i just dont think shes hot. there is nothing that makes me want to get with her. the only thing is i could use her for experience but i just dont feel like tapping her, you know? so wat would u guys do if you were me? would u tap an average/below average so u wouldnt be a virgin anymore. cuz im 18 and im sick of being a virgin i want to have sex so bad but she just isnt hot enough. so wat would u guys do?
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Your contradicting yourself a bit with this question. You say flat out that your not physically attracted to her, but you want to lose the v-card. When a girl really wants you, the way this chick wants you, they end up going the extra mile to please you. And who knows, you might change your mind on how you feel about her once you actually fuvk her. On one hand it would be great for you to get some experience so you could become more confident and start gaming hotter girls, but on the other hand its pretty low to take advantage of a chick and give her false hope about your feelings just for a piece of ass.




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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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