"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don’t sit there thinking. Write. Pick up the pen, keep on writing. You should never pause. There is no reason.

Suppose your life was a book. Void of the things you do, it’s an account of what makes you, you. It has all the ingredients: your desires, passions, and feelings. Could you write in it right now? Could you fill a page, not of the things you do, but of yourself? Could you tell the world, or yourself, what you are? It would impress some of us, including you. But it's difficult when there is nothing to write.

It’s timeless being our age. We have no conceptions, worries, or relaxations. We’re in a vegetated state of mind. We don’t know what to think or where to go. We’re lost without our loves, our friends, or our feelings.

Love. Take care of this and you will have solved most of your subconscious desires. If you’re obsessed with someone, chances are you’re not in love. For most lost adolescents, we find the idea of loving more attractive than the person. That’s what makes the aspect so intriguing. Otherwise what would there be to push for, a real person? Could we really be infatuated with flesh and blood? No.

Stop trying to hold on. Find real worries and things to relax on. Start thinking right, or better yet, stop thinking.

Learn all you can and let your conscious take over. Start living more, let go of the others. Forget feelings and desires. Let it go and the truth will sink in.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wonderbread166

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What is happening to this website? Are people actually posting THOUGHTFUL POSTS?? Concious, you're the second person this week who is new to sosuave.net that has actually made a good, thought-provoking post.

For most of us lost adolescents, we find the idea of loving more attractive than the person themselves. That’s what makes the aspect so intriguing, so genuine. Otherwise what would there be to push for, a real person? Could we really be infatuated with flesh and blood? No.
I've never heard it put so well.

Er.. Hello to you to.:)
 

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TyTe`EyEs

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Welcome to the board.

Stay Active.
 
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