"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don’t sit there thinking. Write. Pick up the pen, keep on writing. You should never pause. There is no reason.

Suppose your life was a book. Void of the things you do, it’s an account of what makes you, you. It has all the ingredients: your desires, passions, and feelings. Could you write in it right now? Could you fill a page, not of the things you do, but of yourself? Could you tell the world, or yourself, what you are? It would impress some of us, including you. But it's difficult when there is nothing to write.

It’s timeless being our age. We have no conceptions, worries, or relaxations. We’re in a vegetated state of mind. We don’t know what to think or where to go. We’re lost without our loves, our friends, or our feelings.

Love. Take care of this and you will have solved most of your subconscious desires. If you’re obsessed with someone, chances are you’re not in love. For most lost adolescents, we find the idea of loving more attractive than the person. That’s what makes the aspect so intriguing. Otherwise what would there be to push for, a real person? Could we really be infatuated with flesh and blood? No.

Stop trying to hold on. Find real worries and things to relax on. Start thinking right, or better yet, stop thinking.

Learn all you can and let your conscious take over. Start living more, let go of the others. Forget feelings and desires. Let it go and the truth will sink in.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wonderbread166

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What is happening to this website? Are people actually posting THOUGHTFUL POSTS?? Concious, you're the second person this week who is new to sosuave.net that has actually made a good, thought-provoking post.

For most of us lost adolescents, we find the idea of loving more attractive than the person themselves. That’s what makes the aspect so intriguing, so genuine. Otherwise what would there be to push for, a real person? Could we really be infatuated with flesh and blood? No.
I've never heard it put so well.

Er.. Hello to you to.:)
 

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TyTe`EyEs

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Welcome to the board.

Stay Active.
 
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