"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freestyling to women seems to be what is working.

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People told me that this would not work approaching women. I did 2 approaches last night with it, these cute white girls were very receptive laughing saying it was good, and her friends nickname is Jeminem and were talking to me and things of that nature. I did it to a black girl and she said wow you got something there I was rapping to her friend about drink and she said who you with what you up to I said a lady friend she said why are you not with her we are doing are own thing. I seem to need to get the authoritve lead though that is only somewhat of issue I am working on fixing. like the other girls I said I wish I can figure out what to do from here ITS NOT THAT HARD just ask her to have drink and talk to her but for some reason I go blank LOL. So I am working on this I am definite making strides here people. So I am going out again tonight I am gonna try freestyling to women more often if I get good responses all of the time I dont see why it would not work so just an FYI I guess its not just the rapping its my confidence and how I potray the freestyle to the bitches so wish me luck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Problem is i say hey how u doing etc.. Women are bored not giving good interaction happy smiling when talking to me when i freestyle they were receptive asking me questions etc
 

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To me, a freestyle approach by it's very nature, automatically elevates the woman and puts her on a pedestal. You are dropping frame and going out of your way to impress her is how I see it. To me it would be a different scenario if you were freestyling to a group and she happened to observe that and then you approached her.

One on one freestyle, to me, has an underlying tone of desperation, as it conveys that you feel you need to pull out your big moves to win a woman, rather than conveying/knowing that who you are, without big moves, is more than enough already, to warrant her attraction and interest.

Why do the mods allow women to post on a men's site?

The only thing that reeks of desperation is you posting here.

OP....just kino and progress with getting her a drink if you have to at first. I never buy drinks, but it can ease in to continuing the interaction at your current level.
 

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if you are aesthetic you can do whatever you want
 
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