"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Freestyling to women seems to be what is working.

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People told me that this would not work approaching women. I did 2 approaches last night with it, these cute white girls were very receptive laughing saying it was good, and her friends nickname is Jeminem and were talking to me and things of that nature. I did it to a black girl and she said wow you got something there I was rapping to her friend about drink and she said who you with what you up to I said a lady friend she said why are you not with her we are doing are own thing. I seem to need to get the authoritve lead though that is only somewhat of issue I am working on fixing. like the other girls I said I wish I can figure out what to do from here ITS NOT THAT HARD just ask her to have drink and talk to her but for some reason I go blank LOL. So I am working on this I am definite making strides here people. So I am going out again tonight I am gonna try freestyling to women more often if I get good responses all of the time I dont see why it would not work so just an FYI I guess its not just the rapping its my confidence and how I potray the freestyle to the bitches so wish me luck.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Problem is i say hey how u doing etc.. Women are bored not giving good interaction happy smiling when talking to me when i freestyle they were receptive asking me questions etc
 

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To me, a freestyle approach by it's very nature, automatically elevates the woman and puts her on a pedestal. You are dropping frame and going out of your way to impress her is how I see it. To me it would be a different scenario if you were freestyling to a group and she happened to observe that and then you approached her.

One on one freestyle, to me, has an underlying tone of desperation, as it conveys that you feel you need to pull out your big moves to win a woman, rather than conveying/knowing that who you are, without big moves, is more than enough already, to warrant her attraction and interest.

Why do the mods allow women to post on a men's site?

The only thing that reeks of desperation is you posting here.

OP....just kino and progress with getting her a drink if you have to at first. I never buy drinks, but it can ease in to continuing the interaction at your current level.
 

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if you are aesthetic you can do whatever you want
 
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