"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FREE training course for those in the DC/Maryland area

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http://forum.theattractionvault.com/showthread.php?tid=13991

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The 4 week course is scheduled to begin this Sunday October 2nd at 5pm in Columbia, MD. The class is free and seats are somewhat limited.

The course is a fusion of Adam Lyons, Spear, Neil Strauss, Toastmasters, and personal experience. Topics include:

  • Verbal and non-verbal communications
  • Building commonalities
  • Escalation
  • Closing
  • Logistics
  • And much more

Class meets once a week for instruction and drills, plus once a week in the field as schedules allow. This is also a great way to meet local wings.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dammit I was too late on this
 

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women haze said:
dammit I was too late on this
You're welcome to join us at the next session. I'll be doing a recap for another guy that wasn't able to make it.
 
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