"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FREE training course for those in the DC/Maryland area

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The 4 week course is scheduled to begin this Sunday October 2nd at 5pm in Columbia, MD. The class is free and seats are somewhat limited.

The course is a fusion of Adam Lyons, Spear, Neil Strauss, Toastmasters, and personal experience. Topics include:

  • Verbal and non-verbal communications
  • Building commonalities
  • Escalation
  • Closing
  • Logistics
  • And much more

Class meets once a week for instruction and drills, plus once a week in the field as schedules allow. This is also a great way to meet local wings.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dammit I was too late on this
 
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women haze said:
dammit I was too late on this
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You're welcome to join us at the next session. I'll be doing a recap for another guy that wasn't able to make it.
 
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