"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FREE Talks in NYC on the 15th

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Hey guys,

Just wanted to give you a heads up about a FREE Talk that's happening tomorrow (July 15th) at 9pm.

Come out and get FREE Training, Meet other like minded guys who want to get better in social situation and with women. To register simply send me and email at [email protected] or text me at 954-274-6996 to RSVP.

SEATING IS LIMITED! FIRST COME FIRST SERVE!
PLEASE DO NOT SHOW UP UNANNOUNCED BECAUSE YOU WILL NOT BE LET IN.

For those who RSVP here is the address:
Ripley-Grier Studios (Est. 1999)
520 8th Ave.
Between 36th and 37th st

Always giving back,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Damn, I wish I could make it but i have class until 9pm right across the bridge. Will this ever happen again?
 
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I actually saw this meeting through my Meetup.com group. Not sure if you guys have heard of it but its a site filled with different groups you can join in your metro area. Im actually part of like 5 or 6 PUA and wing man groups in NYC. Yeah, I know i sounds like spam but I joined because the sarge nights on his site never materialize into anything. Went on one a few years ago from this site (check my profile for the post) and had tons of fun. Unfortunately that was the only one that happened. Oh, they also have a few, or should I say a ton, singles groups on the site.
 
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To all the guys that showed up yesterday for the FREE Training,

Thanks and please post reviews and feedback!

See you on the flip side,
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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