"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FREE Talks in NYC on the 15th

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Hey guys,

Just wanted to give you a heads up about a FREE Talk that's happening tomorrow (July 15th) at 9pm.

Come out and get FREE Training, Meet other like minded guys who want to get better in social situation and with women. To register simply send me and email at [email protected] or text me at 954-274-6996 to RSVP.

SEATING IS LIMITED! FIRST COME FIRST SERVE!
PLEASE DO NOT SHOW UP UNANNOUNCED BECAUSE YOU WILL NOT BE LET IN.

For those who RSVP here is the address:
Ripley-Grier Studios (Est. 1999)
520 8th Ave.
Between 36th and 37th st

Always giving back,
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Damn, I wish I could make it but i have class until 9pm right across the bridge. Will this ever happen again?
 

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I actually saw this meeting through my Meetup.com group. Not sure if you guys have heard of it but its a site filled with different groups you can join in your metro area. Im actually part of like 5 or 6 PUA and wing man groups in NYC. Yeah, I know i sounds like spam but I joined because the sarge nights on his site never materialize into anything. Went on one a few years ago from this site (check my profile for the post) and had tons of fun. Unfortunately that was the only one that happened. Oh, they also have a few, or should I say a ton, singles groups on the site.
 

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To all the guys that showed up yesterday for the FREE Training,

Thanks and please post reviews and feedback!

See you on the flip side,
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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