Freaking out

[Magnatolia]

Hi Guys,

I was totally cool with my goal of attracting/seducing woman when I go on holidays today, but when I woke up this morning I had a million butterflies in my stomach.

I'm completely freaked out at the prospect of chatting to random woman. Do you ever get this and what do you do to get over it?

I jut have this feeling that I won't do anything if I can't get rid of this panic.

Thanks
J

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

If the thought of talking to another person, especially a girl freaks you out then i think you should spend your holidays working on your social skills.
Forget talking to girls for the sake of trying to pick them up.

Just become more ******d and social.

Think about how silly being scared to talk to someone is. People are just people.... The pressure and the panic is all in your head.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

it censors the word "O U T W A R D" ?

 

[ethnomethodologist]

===****** ******d outwad tiitwad swabwad===

Most people don't care if you're fvcked up, and that is the honest to god truth. They are too self absorbed to care.

Other way to look at it is your freaking cause you think they are going to freak. Just treat them like you treat yourself, if you **** up, do you run off crying, scream at yourself, stay quiet, or laugh?

 

[organizedconfusion]

i am not sure if this would be usefull to anyone else, but i used to spite them and when i would talk to them i made them feel as if something was wrong with them , like something fundamenaly wrong with them- and they would feel bad and that made me feel better about myself who cares? they're hot and most guys ki$$ their a$$,i'll remind them that they really ain't all that special.

 

[n00bPimp]

Try something easy first like talking to old people, the escalate to people who look like they have low self esteem, then kids, then avergae girls, and so on.