I just went on a vacation to this hotel type thingy, and they had this club for teens. Everyone was grinding (freak dancing w/e u wanna call it) except me. I can dance well enough, but I just don't know how to start grinding. Do you just go up to a girl and start doing it or what? Is there some sort of protocol you should follow to not scare her off?
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Then, move on to the next girl.
Grinding is easy, not much skill involved. Watch what other people do and you'll get it.
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Grinding is pretty straight forward, and a lot of fun.
Just tap her on the shoulder and she'll get the idea, or you could also just dance up on her and go at it.
or ask her.
Move your body to the beat and remember to switch it up.
I wrote a guide on dancing, and theres a section on grinding, you should check it out.
http://www.sosuccessful.net/forum/showthread.php?t=109
Just tap her on the shoulder and she'll get the idea, or you could also just dance up on her and go at it.
or ask her.
Move your body to the beat and remember to switch it up.
I wrote a guide on dancing, and theres a section on grinding, you should check it out.
http://www.sosuccessful.net/forum/showthread.php?t=109
"Butt Bumpin
by Vassago
One of the best intros I've ever come up with is also one of the simplest.
Stand next to the girl you want to talk too, crack an evil smile, and start bumpin you butt against hers! Sounds easy, and it is.
I've never done this without the girl cracking a HUGE smile and getting into the butt bumpin. They love it! Of course, this is a club technique, so don't try it in the mall. But I've done it at parties and it works well.
The best application is on the dance floor... Slide up next to the girl and start bumpin butts. Then after the 3rd or fourth hit slide behind her and start freakin. Try it tonight!"
coincidence. this was one of the home page quick tips @ sosuave.
by Vassago
One of the best intros I've ever come up with is also one of the simplest.
Stand next to the girl you want to talk too, crack an evil smile, and start bumpin you butt against hers! Sounds easy, and it is.
I've never done this without the girl cracking a HUGE smile and getting into the butt bumpin. They love it! Of course, this is a club technique, so don't try it in the mall. But I've done it at parties and it works well.
The best application is on the dance floor... Slide up next to the girl and start bumpin butts. Then after the 3rd or fourth hit slide behind her and start freakin. Try it tonight!"
coincidence. this was one of the home page quick tips @ sosuave.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i went clubbing wit a few of my girl friends (jus friends) the other day and i would say, dont jus go up behind them and start dancing (unless its a really wild party). some girls get freaked out by it. at least let em know who theyre dancing with
Why ask? It's the same concept as going out with a girl. Would you just go up to her and ask, "Would you like to go out with me?"
You do not want to make her make the decision whether she can dance with you or not.
Be confident, put on a big smile, and say something a long the lines of: "Hey, I saw you checking me out back there; let's dance!"
If you are confident in the way you say it, and you have a big smile on your face, I doubt she will say no.
You do not want to make her make the decision whether she can dance with you or not.
Be confident, put on a big smile, and say something a long the lines of: "Hey, I saw you checking me out back there; let's dance!"
If you are confident in the way you say it, and you have a big smile on your face, I doubt she will say no.
I used to just sneak up from behind and start grindin and it was working most of the time. But lately alot of girls would get mad if I do it that way. Now just before I start grindin I'll grab them and say lets dance. This way has been working better for me.
To get more comfortable doing it start with fat girls. They would let anyone dance with them and when you see how easy it is you will get more confidence.
To get more comfortable doing it start with fat girls. They would let anyone dance with them and when you see how easy it is you will get more confidence.
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Kev07 said:
LOL have u ever tried ground beef?seems like it wouldnt realy work that well