"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Frats at college

duckbutt

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hey guys, im going to college next year and i was deciding if i should join a frat or not. some people say that its really good and its an easy way to get into parties, but other people say its a waste of time..

soo.... do u guys think itd be better for me to join a frat or no?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Patrick124

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dont do it.
depends on where you go to college, but at my school frats are for the lame-os with no friends so they have to bond with guys by going through hell week and such.
but at my boys school in Richmond theyre are almost no parties unless u rush.

iuno fvck frats man. lol.
 

volkme68

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It all depends on where you go to school. At my school almost a quarter of the school is greek. Fraternities are more than just partying, and that holds true for almost all of them. Also great for contacts. A fraternity wont really help you meet girls, as they are everywhere anyway and it all comes down to you and how you act. It will give you options and connections and opurtunities. instead of playing halo on weekends and hiding vodka in your dresser, you will have to decide on which party or event you feel like going to. Also, that whole bit about greeks have no friends is BS. Most fraternities wont even give you a bid unless you come off as someone who is fun to be around. You would be surprised how many bars and clubs are ran by brothers in colllege towns. It is also a grat way to meet some upper classmen who know a little how your college works and where the good places to hang are. I personally am in Sigma Alpha Epsilon, and while every chapter of every fraternity is different, we generally get along with people. My advice is to talk to all the fraternities on campus, pick three or four you really like, and then rush them all. After rush you can make a decision on which one, if any you want to pledge. Also, dont wait for them to approach you, if you make the first move, it will impress them. Do your homework. meet some older girls and ask their opinions on the different ones, but take it with a grain of salt. Like I said, its not really about the girls, because with enough game you can find them anywhere, but it is awesome for networking and knowing people. companies look at being in fraternity as very appealing, it shows you are an extrovert and have good people skills, and are generally more well rounded.
 

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Id say do it. Its easier to get in and be less involved, rather than not be involved at all. Frats suck at the beginning from what Im told and the parties are overrated, but you can build your social circle that way. Just dont join a frat full of lame-os.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mr.Sexy

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I suggest that you hire people who join Greek orgs. They are the easiest to dominate. They live to please those that are superior to them. My life is made easier by the fact that so many young people want me to accept them. Last April after my vacation I came back and had a thing with this really annoying sorority girl. You might be asking yourselves, "Why would Mr. Sexy get involved with such a nuisance?" I'll tell you why. She was the only thin girl I saw that week! Usually I only date brand new exchange students at the university (before they get fat), but I wanted to test an American out after being gone for a month. Anyway. It was really easy separating her from her "sisters". If it wasn't for that voice of hers I would have stuck it out longer. I ended up dumping her after she cleaned one of my toilets. She did a good job at least. I can still remember her screaming, "Didn't I clean it good enough for you!"
 

Lord Shinra

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Do as you wish. Each side has its pros and cons.

I just tell them I'm in a band, so "thanks but no thanks"
 

Mr.Sexy

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A band is a good idea. If you get girls drunk enough they will listen to anything.
 
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