"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Frats at college

duckbutt

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hey guys, im going to college next year and i was deciding if i should join a frat or not. some people say that its really good and its an easy way to get into parties, but other people say its a waste of time..

soo.... do u guys think itd be better for me to join a frat or no?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Patrick124

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dont do it.
depends on where you go to college, but at my school frats are for the lame-os with no friends so they have to bond with guys by going through hell week and such.
but at my boys school in Richmond theyre are almost no parties unless u rush.

iuno fvck frats man. lol.
 

volkme68

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It all depends on where you go to school. At my school almost a quarter of the school is greek. Fraternities are more than just partying, and that holds true for almost all of them. Also great for contacts. A fraternity wont really help you meet girls, as they are everywhere anyway and it all comes down to you and how you act. It will give you options and connections and opurtunities. instead of playing halo on weekends and hiding vodka in your dresser, you will have to decide on which party or event you feel like going to. Also, that whole bit about greeks have no friends is BS. Most fraternities wont even give you a bid unless you come off as someone who is fun to be around. You would be surprised how many bars and clubs are ran by brothers in colllege towns. It is also a grat way to meet some upper classmen who know a little how your college works and where the good places to hang are. I personally am in Sigma Alpha Epsilon, and while every chapter of every fraternity is different, we generally get along with people. My advice is to talk to all the fraternities on campus, pick three or four you really like, and then rush them all. After rush you can make a decision on which one, if any you want to pledge. Also, dont wait for them to approach you, if you make the first move, it will impress them. Do your homework. meet some older girls and ask their opinions on the different ones, but take it with a grain of salt. Like I said, its not really about the girls, because with enough game you can find them anywhere, but it is awesome for networking and knowing people. companies look at being in fraternity as very appealing, it shows you are an extrovert and have good people skills, and are generally more well rounded.
 

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Id say do it. Its easier to get in and be less involved, rather than not be involved at all. Frats suck at the beginning from what Im told and the parties are overrated, but you can build your social circle that way. Just dont join a frat full of lame-os.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr.Sexy

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I suggest that you hire people who join Greek orgs. They are the easiest to dominate. They live to please those that are superior to them. My life is made easier by the fact that so many young people want me to accept them. Last April after my vacation I came back and had a thing with this really annoying sorority girl. You might be asking yourselves, "Why would Mr. Sexy get involved with such a nuisance?" I'll tell you why. She was the only thin girl I saw that week! Usually I only date brand new exchange students at the university (before they get fat), but I wanted to test an American out after being gone for a month. Anyway. It was really easy separating her from her "sisters". If it wasn't for that voice of hers I would have stuck it out longer. I ended up dumping her after she cleaned one of my toilets. She did a good job at least. I can still remember her screaming, "Didn't I clean it good enough for you!"
 

Lord Shinra

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Do as you wish. Each side has its pros and cons.

I just tell them I'm in a band, so "thanks but no thanks"
 

Mr.Sexy

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A band is a good idea. If you get girls drunk enough they will listen to anything.
 
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