"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fraternal Organizations

2Rocky

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What have your experiences with Fraternal Orders been? Or what have you experienced with friends, relatives and acquaintances?

Elks - rent their hall frequently for fundraising events. Cheap bar and RV parking. Monthly dinners with a theme.

Druids - Joined to give my daughters extra chance at a scholarship. Monthly dinners. doa lot of donations in the community.

Lions - Buy raffle tickets from them they help sponsor a lot of Boy scout troops in area

Others?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ubercat

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Idk man they seem to have died in Oz. Seems like a good idea for socialising and making biz contacts. I admit my social circles have died off over covid. Might look into Lions. Thanks for the idea.
 

The Duke

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I used to go with my grandpa during my 20s to his Lions club lunch meeting. I got a free meal, met a lot of people he introduced me to, and they always had a guest speaker that was interesting. It was a good way to meet a lot of civic and business minded men in the community.

My dad was a Kiwanis member for years, it was a lot like the Lions club.

If you are a business owner I think either one of these groups are a great thing.
 

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I have no experience with them, but it seems like this is a thing that is sorely needed in this day and age. Women have been constantly trying to destroy them over the years and have mostly succeeded.
 

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Sound great to me - my buddy has joined up to the elks and lions - meets lots of older successful guys and they do great things like fundraise for blind children. An absolutely great idea to join up - the benefits almost certainly outweigh any cons.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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