"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Fraternal Organizations

2Rocky

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What have your experiences with Fraternal Orders been? Or what have you experienced with friends, relatives and acquaintances?

Elks - rent their hall frequently for fundraising events. Cheap bar and RV parking. Monthly dinners with a theme.

Druids - Joined to give my daughters extra chance at a scholarship. Monthly dinners. doa lot of donations in the community.

Lions - Buy raffle tickets from them they help sponsor a lot of Boy scout troops in area

Others?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ubercat

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Idk man they seem to have died in Oz. Seems like a good idea for socialising and making biz contacts. I admit my social circles have died off over covid. Might look into Lions. Thanks for the idea.
 

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I used to go with my grandpa during my 20s to his Lions club lunch meeting. I got a free meal, met a lot of people he introduced me to, and they always had a guest speaker that was interesting. It was a good way to meet a lot of civic and business minded men in the community.

My dad was a Kiwanis member for years, it was a lot like the Lions club.

If you are a business owner I think either one of these groups are a great thing.
 

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I have no experience with them, but it seems like this is a thing that is sorely needed in this day and age. Women have been constantly trying to destroy them over the years and have mostly succeeded.
 

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Sound great to me - my buddy has joined up to the elks and lions - meets lots of older successful guys and they do great things like fundraise for blind children. An absolutely great idea to join up - the benefits almost certainly outweigh any cons.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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