"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Frat Guys = DJs?

Donald Kaufman

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In America, fraternities are about networking. They have big houses, funding and mean something in later life.

In Canada, frats are about people getting kicked out of a dorm and looking for somewhere they can live without having anyone to cosign their lease. They have rundown shacks, no funding, and are something you will never admit to in later life.

Overall, everything post secondary related in Canada is about killing time till someone dies so you can take their job.

In America it's about social standing.

When I write my educational qualifications on a form they say something like, "So, you spent 7 years in University. Hmn. How'd you do in High School?" :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mjfan12

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sorry for bumping this.

I am also thinking about joining a frat. I go to the university of illinois at chicago (uic)

I dont know mcuh about the frats here on campus, but only one of them has a house, and one of my friends who I went to highschool with is in it.

I want to meet new people. I mean, I made many "friends" during my first year, but none of them I would consider good friends. I mean we only hung out at school, and never outside of it.

I'm looking for friends that I can depend on and we can go hanging out during the weekends.

I am not planning to do it for girls, but if that happens, then thats cool.

I plan on being a lawyer, so I REALLY need to start networking early on to help me out later in life.

I mean a lot of sucessful people were a part of frats, and I hope to be among them.

here are the frats in my campus
which ones are good? which ones dont haze? and which ones are national?

Alpha Gamma Chi
Alpha Epsilon Pi
Alpha Phi Alpha
Beta Phi Pi
Zeta Psi
Theta Xi
Kappa Alpha Psi
Kappa Alpha Psi
Kappa Alpha Psi
Sigma Alpha Mu
Sigma Lambda Beta
Tau Phi Sigma
Phi Beta Sigma
Chi Sigma Tau
Omega Delta
 

MindOverMatter

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If you want to find a good frat, talk to sorority girls. They'll tell you which frats throw best parties and are the most fun guys, etc.
 

Mjfan12

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
If you want to find a good frat, talk to sorority girls. They'll tell you which frats throw best parties and are the most fun guys, etc.
I dont know any sorority girls lol. all the girls I know arent in one.
 

MindOverMatter

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if you can't find a sorority girl on campus, you're not talking to enough girls...

read the bible and get out there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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