"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Frame control = being a d1ck?

MattS

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Swear every girl i deal with espically ones that get hit on a lot by guys usually respond the way I want them to when im being a d1ck. Once i turn of the d1ck head it seems they lose respect for me and try to control the frame. Usually goes i ignore them act ****y they get interested i turn it off they see an opening and try to start to walk over me and goes down hill from there.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sky77

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you don't necessarily have to be a ****. just be stern and nice, and kind of tell them how things are going to be. Frame control seems to me to be more of a social art, than anything else. There are multiple ways of handling it. Good luck, some girls want control more than others...
 

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i swear they only respond to when im a d1ck atleast in the beginning, i turn it off for a second they think they can take advantage of me or soemthing
 

Sexual

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Do you have a problem acting like that? My roommate is a complete prick to women and has the mind set that all women come to him. It works for him and he seems happy about it even though I'm the one introducing him to them usually. By doing this, he's able to do something I'm unable to do (close with lies but it makes me feel like shyt). He has them fully understanding that he wants to use them and treat them like trash, and it seems to me that they thrive off of the idea that he's unattainable and ... I can't think of the word, but mysterious, random, and does what he wants.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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