"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Frame control = being a d1ck?

MattS

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Swear every girl i deal with espically ones that get hit on a lot by guys usually respond the way I want them to when im being a d1ck. Once i turn of the d1ck head it seems they lose respect for me and try to control the frame. Usually goes i ignore them act ****y they get interested i turn it off they see an opening and try to start to walk over me and goes down hill from there.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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you don't necessarily have to be a ****. just be stern and nice, and kind of tell them how things are going to be. Frame control seems to me to be more of a social art, than anything else. There are multiple ways of handling it. Good luck, some girls want control more than others...
 

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i swear they only respond to when im a d1ck atleast in the beginning, i turn it off for a second they think they can take advantage of me or soemthing
 

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Do you have a problem acting like that? My roommate is a complete prick to women and has the mind set that all women come to him. It works for him and he seems happy about it even though I'm the one introducing him to them usually. By doing this, he's able to do something I'm unable to do (close with lies but it makes me feel like shyt). He has them fully understanding that he wants to use them and treat them like trash, and it seems to me that they thrive off of the idea that he's unattainable and ... I can't think of the word, but mysterious, random, and does what he wants.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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