Calling women cvnts is not mature either, especially since this one didn't do anything wrong and does not deserve this label.MacAvoy said:I thought this was the Mature Man forum, guess I must have mistaken it for the highschool forum
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Calling women cvnts is not mature either, especially since this one didn't do anything wrong and does not deserve this label.MacAvoy said:I thought this was the Mature Man forum, guess I must have mistaken it for the highschool forum
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I think so, I recently banged a women engaged to be married, I fvcked her, and then she called a cab, I fvcked her again, a quickie, fully clothed, I shot my load on her panties just as her cab arrived.Deep Dish said:I recently had a similar experience of disgust.
I just found her behavior disgusting; she could probably be in an orgy, wipe the cvm off her face, then go to her husband all clean and proper.
DJ Damage, how fvcing canadian of you to stick up for the womem............:kick:DJDamage said:Calling women cvnts is not mature either, especially since this one didn't do anything wrong and does not deserve this label.
MacAvoy said:Fast forward to last night, she invited a guy that she has a night school class to meet up with us.
Dude, that "platonic" word is some serious b¡tch speak. Try not to use it in the presence of men lest you will look like a woman.platonic
adj.
of or associated with the Greek philosopher Plato or his ideas.
• (platonic) (of love or friendship)
initmate and affectionate but not sexual:
their relationship is purely platonic.
• (platonic) confined to words, theories, or ideals, and not leading to practical action
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I am not sticking up for this woman, but she doesn't deserve to be called a cvnt.englishman said:DJ Damage, how fvcing canadian of you to stick up for the womem............:kick:
Vulpine said:MacAvoy, I understand you are using her for social proof, as a pivot, etc. But, don't get involved in her personal business if you don't have to. Ok, you've determined that she's worthless. Now what? Use a tool as a tool - don't get tooled by a tool.
And oh yeah, this AW is getting her use out of you MacAvoy. If you are this wrapped up in her business you're her attention tool.
Dude, that "platonic" word is some serious b¡tch speak. Try not to use it in the presence of men lest you will look like a woman.
Have you slept with all of your female coworkers ..... how did that turn out for you?DJDamage said:I believe it was Chris Rock who said: "Men don't have platonic female friends, they are just women we haven't fvcked yet!"
I haven't slept with them. But I know some of them do want to fvck me. They are also not my friends but my acquaintances (that means that if I see them somewhere I will strike a friendly conversation with them and be chummy with them but I won't get their numbers and hang out with them on a pre-arrange event like I would with a friend).MacAvoy said:Have you slept with all of your female coworkers ..... how did that turn out for you?
I don't know about this. I know a number of upstanding women who tolerate their other friend's bullsh1t like this under the guise of "she never does it to me" or "I know she's stupid but she's just a [drinking friend | going out friend] and not someone i share my secrets with."Vulpine said:See, women that behave this way tend to flock together: more upstanding women tend to disassociate from women who behave this way (i.e. "shady"). These AW cµnts actually irritate the higher calibre, less dramatic women.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.