"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FR;While working at grocery store

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I was at work for about 30 minutes today and then BAM! This cute HB 8.75 with the perfect body that looked about 17-19 comes walking in with her mom....If she seperated from her mom I wasn't thinking twice. To my luck as soon as I thought that they split,GO TIME! Just then,my boss asked me to move something for him which allowed me to go head over to her area. I walked past the isle on the way there and man oh man I wasn't gonna miss out. On the way back I looked down her isle again,she was checking me out.*(Girls with long hair can't hid if they are checking someone out,when they look back when you catch them their hair is still moving). Screw it,I'm going in.

bw;"Excuse me."
hb;(Looks eye contact with smile)
bw;"Hey um,I will more then likely get in trouble for this but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you."
hb;"I'm hb"(look of shock)
bw;"Nice to meet you hb,here with your mom huh?"
hb;"Yep."(Blushing)
bw;"So where do you go to school?"
hb;"I go to Sutter."
bw;"Oh right on. Hey I have to get back to work,I'm already in trouble. Do you mind if I call you up sometime?"
hb;"Sure that's fine. It's ***-****"(Big smile and stands right next me)
bw;"Whoa whoa,slow down speed-racer."(I got the phone out,it has soo many stupid features that I have to go through just to add a #)"Ok what is it again?"
hb;"***.....****"
bw;"Ok thanks. I will get back to work but I will see you around. Bye."(I left)
hb;"Bye."

I'm gonna call tommorow(Thursday) and set up the date. I will be so darn busy next week.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blinkwatt said:
I was at work for about 30 minutes today and then BAM! This cute HB 8.75 with the perfect body that looked about 17-19 comes walking in with her mom....If she seperated from her mom I wasn't thinking twice. To my luck as soon as I thought that they split,GO TIME! Just then,my boss asked me to move something for him which allowed me to go head over to her area. I walked past the isle on the way there and man oh man I wasn't gonna miss out. On the way back I looked down her isle again,she was checking me out.*(Girls with long hair can't hid if they are checking someone out,when they look back when you catch them their hair is still moving). Screw it,I'm going in.

bw;"Excuse me."
hb;(Looks eye contact with smile)
bw;"Hey um,I will more then likely get in trouble for this but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you."
hb;"I'm hb"(look of shock)
bw;"Nice to meet you hb,here with your mom huh?"
hb;"Yep."(Blushing)
bw;"So where do you go to school?"
hb;"I go to Sutter."
bw;"Oh right on. Hey I have to get back to work,I'm already in trouble. Do you mind if I call you up sometime?"
hb;"Sure that's fine. It's ***-****"(Big smile and stands right next me)
bw;"Whoa whoa,slow down speed-racer."(I got the phone out,it has soo many stupid features that I have to go through just to add a #)"Ok what is it again?"
hb;"***.....****"
bw;"Ok thanks. I will get back to work but I will see you around. Bye."(I left)
hb;"Bye."

I'm gonna call tommorow(Thursday) and set up the date. I will be so darn busy next week.
Nice job, "kid". If I could have done that at 19 I'd have had a much better time in my twenties...!

:rockon:
 

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Do you mind if I call you up sometime?"
But..wait...that's not supposed to work...you were supposed to say "GIVE me you rnumber and I'll call you up sometime"...

So much for the "rules"...
 

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Good job u played it perfect. The way it sounds this could be a girl you are going to bang
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quick update for you all. I called her up,she didn't answer and I don't leave messages so I figured I would try back later. Well about 5 minutes later she calls back and it went like this;

hb;"Hey someone called me from this number a couple of minutes ago."
bw;"Yeah this is blinkwatt from (my job)."
hb;(enthused)"Oh hey what's going on"(her tone changed to so energetic and happy)
bw;"Not too much just on my way to work,how you doing?"
hb;"Doing good just doing some homework."
bw;"Right on,so I take it you had a good day?"(something along those lines)
hb;"Yeah kinda boring,but what can you do?"
bw;"Yeah,hey what are you going tommorow night?"
hb;"I might have (something her phone broke out)."
bw;"Well do you think you can handle going out with me?"
hb;"Oh yeah."(she had a spunk to how she said it)
bw;"Well then let's go out then tommorow."
hb;"I don't know if I can I might have (for the life of me I couldnt figure what the heck she said she was doing)."
bw;"Your killing me."
hb;(chuckles)
bw:"When can you know if you can go out or not?"
hb;"I can find out probably later tonight."
bw;"Alright then just give me a call when you find out cause tommorow would work real well."
hb;"Ok."
bw;"Alright I will talk to you later."
hb;"Bye."

Now during the whole conversation she was happy and enthused. Now I didn't get a call from her,weird. I think tommorow I will take a shot and call her up but count on anything.
 

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blinkwatt said:
Quick update for you all. I called her up,she didn't answer and I don't leave messages so I figured I would try back later. Well about 5 minutes later she calls back and it went like this;

hb;"Hey someone called me from this number a couple of minutes ago."
bw;"Yeah this is blinkwatt from (my job)."
hb;(enthused)"Oh hey what's going on"(her tone changed to so energetic and happy)
bw;"Not too much just on my way to work,how you doing?"
hb;"Doing good just doing some homework."
bw;"Right on,so I take it you had a good day?"(something along those lines)
hb;"Yeah kinda boring,but what can you do?"
bw;"Yeah,hey what are you going tommorow night?"
hb;"I might have (something her phone broke out)."
bw;"Well do you think you can handle going out with me?"
hb;"Oh yeah."(she had a spunk to how she said it)
bw;"Well then let's go out then tommorow."
hb;"I don't know if I can I might have (for the life of me I couldnt figure what the heck she said she was doing)."
bw;"Your killing me."
hb;(chuckles)
bw:"When can you know if you can go out or not?"
hb;"I can find out probably later tonight."
bw;"Alright then just give me a call when you find out cause tommorow would work real well."
hb;"Ok."
bw;"Alright I will talk to you later."
hb;"Bye."

Now during the whole conversation she was happy and enthused. Now I didn't get a call from her,weird. I think tommorow I will take a shot and call her up but count on anything.
LOL, sounds like she was pulling that trick that the guy in the movie does when he's trying to stall the bad guys...

..."Yes, this is 848573... our pass code is SHHEWIISHHH GUSSHHH... yeah it seems like HURMMMSHHHHH is cutting out..."
 

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Dude don't call her tomorrow wait a day or two. If she doesn't call then give it another shot. Play the chill role.
 

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Nasman said:
Dude don't call her tomorrow wait a day or two. If she doesn't call then give it another shot. Play the chill role.
Yeah,I will hold out,good idea. I'm going to be bussier then heck next week,that why I took a shot early. Oh well life goes on.
 

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Blinkwatt...grocery stores are bomb for meeting chicks huh? I worked at safeway for 2 years and man, thats how I passed the time. haha!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ValleyDJing said:
Blinkwatt...grocery stores are bomb for meeting chicks huh? I worked at safeway for 2 years and man, thats how I passed the time. haha!
It's ridiculous how many people you meet,90% of the women I have gone out with I met at work. Its just too easy!:rockon:
 

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danielzxc said:
But..wait...that's not supposed to work...you were supposed to say "GIVE me you rnumber and I'll call you up sometime"...

So much for the "rules"...
If he would have followed such rules, attraction would have grown and this flakey behaviour would have been reduced. But still, I get your point. But if you know how it's done in a proper way, why not do it that way?

Good job blinkwatt, I'm totally into instantaneous attraction. For a few seconds you have to give a totally great impression etc to the woman, and is much harder than one would think.
 

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Ok quick update, I got a text this morning;
"Hey,I'm sorry I forgot to call! But yeah,my girl and I are gonna do something tonight...Maybe next weekend?"

Hahaha I got her suckered in.
 

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^ ^ Lesson I've learned, I'll share it with you...


The deal isn't closed, until its closed...


-Cod3r
 

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blinkwatt said:
Ok quick update, I got a text this morning;
"Hey,I'm sorry I forgot to call! But yeah,my girl and I are gonna do something tonight...Maybe next weekend?"

Hahaha I got her suckered in.

Dude, it sounds like she's avoiding you at every turn . F.uck her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude, it sounds like she's avoiding you at every turn . F.uck her.
Hahaha I have no clue why I said that. Well we'll just have to see in time.
 

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damn blinkwatt's scarin the **** out of me...i hope my girl never comes to your store...jk = p ...hot ****.
 

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vagrant said:
damn blinkwatt's scarin the **** out of me...i hope my girl never comes to your store...jk = p ...hot ****.
I have gone out with two chicks I met through my store that had boyfriends. Needless to say it didn't last long.
 

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blinkwatt said:
I have gone out with two chicks I met through my store that had boyfriends. Needless to say it didn't last long.
okay that's cool. i'm still young and learning. it brings my confidence way high knowing that your girlfriend won't leave you for anyone especially if you're treating her right. with what you just said, all this jealousy problem of mine just went straight out the window...adds up to me being a confident man...hehe =p
 
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