"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR;While working at grocery store

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I was at work for about 30 minutes today and then BAM! This cute HB 8.75 with the perfect body that looked about 17-19 comes walking in with her mom....If she seperated from her mom I wasn't thinking twice. To my luck as soon as I thought that they split,GO TIME! Just then,my boss asked me to move something for him which allowed me to go head over to her area. I walked past the isle on the way there and man oh man I wasn't gonna miss out. On the way back I looked down her isle again,she was checking me out.*(Girls with long hair can't hid if they are checking someone out,when they look back when you catch them their hair is still moving). Screw it,I'm going in.

bw;"Excuse me."
hb;(Looks eye contact with smile)
bw;"Hey um,I will more then likely get in trouble for this but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you."
hb;"I'm hb"(look of shock)
bw;"Nice to meet you hb,here with your mom huh?"
hb;"Yep."(Blushing)
bw;"So where do you go to school?"
hb;"I go to Sutter."
bw;"Oh right on. Hey I have to get back to work,I'm already in trouble. Do you mind if I call you up sometime?"
hb;"Sure that's fine. It's ***-****"(Big smile and stands right next me)
bw;"Whoa whoa,slow down speed-racer."(I got the phone out,it has soo many stupid features that I have to go through just to add a #)"Ok what is it again?"
hb;"***.....****"
bw;"Ok thanks. I will get back to work but I will see you around. Bye."(I left)
hb;"Bye."

I'm gonna call tommorow(Thursday) and set up the date. I will be so darn busy next week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blinkwatt said:
I was at work for about 30 minutes today and then BAM! This cute HB 8.75 with the perfect body that looked about 17-19 comes walking in with her mom....If she seperated from her mom I wasn't thinking twice. To my luck as soon as I thought that they split,GO TIME! Just then,my boss asked me to move something for him which allowed me to go head over to her area. I walked past the isle on the way there and man oh man I wasn't gonna miss out. On the way back I looked down her isle again,she was checking me out.*(Girls with long hair can't hid if they are checking someone out,when they look back when you catch them their hair is still moving). Screw it,I'm going in.

bw;"Excuse me."
hb;(Looks eye contact with smile)
bw;"Hey um,I will more then likely get in trouble for this but I thought you were cute and wanted to meet you."
hb;"I'm hb"(look of shock)
bw;"Nice to meet you hb,here with your mom huh?"
hb;"Yep."(Blushing)
bw;"So where do you go to school?"
hb;"I go to Sutter."
bw;"Oh right on. Hey I have to get back to work,I'm already in trouble. Do you mind if I call you up sometime?"
hb;"Sure that's fine. It's ***-****"(Big smile and stands right next me)
bw;"Whoa whoa,slow down speed-racer."(I got the phone out,it has soo many stupid features that I have to go through just to add a #)"Ok what is it again?"
hb;"***.....****"
bw;"Ok thanks. I will get back to work but I will see you around. Bye."(I left)
hb;"Bye."

I'm gonna call tommorow(Thursday) and set up the date. I will be so darn busy next week.
Nice job, "kid". If I could have done that at 19 I'd have had a much better time in my twenties...!

:rockon:
 

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Do you mind if I call you up sometime?"
But..wait...that's not supposed to work...you were supposed to say "GIVE me you rnumber and I'll call you up sometime"...

So much for the "rules"...
 

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Good job u played it perfect. The way it sounds this could be a girl you are going to bang
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Quick update for you all. I called her up,she didn't answer and I don't leave messages so I figured I would try back later. Well about 5 minutes later she calls back and it went like this;

hb;"Hey someone called me from this number a couple of minutes ago."
bw;"Yeah this is blinkwatt from (my job)."
hb;(enthused)"Oh hey what's going on"(her tone changed to so energetic and happy)
bw;"Not too much just on my way to work,how you doing?"
hb;"Doing good just doing some homework."
bw;"Right on,so I take it you had a good day?"(something along those lines)
hb;"Yeah kinda boring,but what can you do?"
bw;"Yeah,hey what are you going tommorow night?"
hb;"I might have (something her phone broke out)."
bw;"Well do you think you can handle going out with me?"
hb;"Oh yeah."(she had a spunk to how she said it)
bw;"Well then let's go out then tommorow."
hb;"I don't know if I can I might have (for the life of me I couldnt figure what the heck she said she was doing)."
bw;"Your killing me."
hb;(chuckles)
bw:"When can you know if you can go out or not?"
hb;"I can find out probably later tonight."
bw;"Alright then just give me a call when you find out cause tommorow would work real well."
hb;"Ok."
bw;"Alright I will talk to you later."
hb;"Bye."

Now during the whole conversation she was happy and enthused. Now I didn't get a call from her,weird. I think tommorow I will take a shot and call her up but count on anything.
 

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Quick update for you all. I called her up,she didn't answer and I don't leave messages so I figured I would try back later. Well about 5 minutes later she calls back and it went like this;

hb;"Hey someone called me from this number a couple of minutes ago."
bw;"Yeah this is blinkwatt from (my job)."
hb;(enthused)"Oh hey what's going on"(her tone changed to so energetic and happy)
bw;"Not too much just on my way to work,how you doing?"
hb;"Doing good just doing some homework."
bw;"Right on,so I take it you had a good day?"(something along those lines)
hb;"Yeah kinda boring,but what can you do?"
bw;"Yeah,hey what are you going tommorow night?"
hb;"I might have (something her phone broke out)."
bw;"Well do you think you can handle going out with me?"
hb;"Oh yeah."(she had a spunk to how she said it)
bw;"Well then let's go out then tommorow."
hb;"I don't know if I can I might have (for the life of me I couldnt figure what the heck she said she was doing)."
bw;"Your killing me."
hb;(chuckles)
bw:"When can you know if you can go out or not?"
hb;"I can find out probably later tonight."
bw;"Alright then just give me a call when you find out cause tommorow would work real well."
hb;"Ok."
bw;"Alright I will talk to you later."
hb;"Bye."

Now during the whole conversation she was happy and enthused. Now I didn't get a call from her,weird. I think tommorow I will take a shot and call her up but count on anything.
LOL, sounds like she was pulling that trick that the guy in the movie does when he's trying to stall the bad guys...

..."Yes, this is 848573... our pass code is SHHEWIISHHH GUSSHHH... yeah it seems like HURMMMSHHHHH is cutting out..."
 

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Dude don't call her tomorrow wait a day or two. If she doesn't call then give it another shot. Play the chill role.
 

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Nasman said:
Dude don't call her tomorrow wait a day or two. If she doesn't call then give it another shot. Play the chill role.
Yeah,I will hold out,good idea. I'm going to be bussier then heck next week,that why I took a shot early. Oh well life goes on.
 

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Blinkwatt...grocery stores are bomb for meeting chicks huh? I worked at safeway for 2 years and man, thats how I passed the time. haha!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ValleyDJing said:
Blinkwatt...grocery stores are bomb for meeting chicks huh? I worked at safeway for 2 years and man, thats how I passed the time. haha!
It's ridiculous how many people you meet,90% of the women I have gone out with I met at work. Its just too easy!:rockon:
 

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danielzxc said:
But..wait...that's not supposed to work...you were supposed to say "GIVE me you rnumber and I'll call you up sometime"...

So much for the "rules"...
If he would have followed such rules, attraction would have grown and this flakey behaviour would have been reduced. But still, I get your point. But if you know how it's done in a proper way, why not do it that way?

Good job blinkwatt, I'm totally into instantaneous attraction. For a few seconds you have to give a totally great impression etc to the woman, and is much harder than one would think.
 

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Ok quick update, I got a text this morning;
"Hey,I'm sorry I forgot to call! But yeah,my girl and I are gonna do something tonight...Maybe next weekend?"

Hahaha I got her suckered in.
 

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^ ^ Lesson I've learned, I'll share it with you...


The deal isn't closed, until its closed...


-Cod3r
 

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blinkwatt said:
Ok quick update, I got a text this morning;
"Hey,I'm sorry I forgot to call! But yeah,my girl and I are gonna do something tonight...Maybe next weekend?"

Hahaha I got her suckered in.

Dude, it sounds like she's avoiding you at every turn . F.uck her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ValleyDJing said:
Dude, it sounds like she's avoiding you at every turn . F.uck her.
Hahaha I have no clue why I said that. Well we'll just have to see in time.
 

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damn blinkwatt's scarin the **** out of me...i hope my girl never comes to your store...jk = p ...hot ****.
 

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damn blinkwatt's scarin the **** out of me...i hope my girl never comes to your store...jk = p ...hot ****.
I have gone out with two chicks I met through my store that had boyfriends. Needless to say it didn't last long.
 

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blinkwatt said:
I have gone out with two chicks I met through my store that had boyfriends. Needless to say it didn't last long.
okay that's cool. i'm still young and learning. it brings my confidence way high knowing that your girlfriend won't leave you for anyone especially if you're treating her right. with what you just said, all this jealousy problem of mine just went straight out the window...adds up to me being a confident man...hehe =p
 
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