"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So me and some friends go out, were bowling, ya know that cosmic bowling stuff where they play club music and its all black lighted n shyt.

anyway one of our girlfriends, friend came to the bowling alley with her supposed boyfriend, now from my friend, She said that she met this dude 2 years ago and they've been dateing ever since.

yah needless to say about halfway into our bowling session she comes and sits next to me and asked if she can drink outta my beer, i said that's cool although i was like there are 3 other cups here just get one of there's she said i want yours.

ANYWAYS i'm talking to her kinda flirting WHILE her boyfriend is sitting in elbows length from me (lol) and she is all smiles ns hit i ask her so how long you and him been together.

She just gave me this blank stare, and was like me and him aren't dateing, i jsut met him 2 months ago, i was like what, i heard 2 yrs.

Needless to say the way the convo was going and how she was constantly on me i waited until her b/f got up to bowl and i asked for her number, she said i can't give you my number, while she was smileing. I was like why not? she said because of her b/f is sitting right there and she cant' trust herself.

WHAAAAAAT.. Did i just get shut down or what? i mean was that just an attempt to cawk tease? or was that a legit excuse
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is just unacceptable. I would have loudly asked, "look, are you dating this guy or not!?" Put her on the spot like that.

I hate these stupid games.
 
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She's playing hard to get with her boyfriend and using you as the a tool to achieve this. She has not interest in you, but she is trying to rasie the interest of her b/f in her.
 
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Some girl did this to me at a college party. The girl said they were just friends, the guy said they were dating. I thought the guy was just f*cking with me, so I kept talking to them (mainly her). It turns out they actually were dating. Some girls are just frikkin' attention *****s.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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