"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR: Wednesday Night, 09.01.04

cactus3178

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Okay, not so much of a FR, more of a follow up to last weeks FR.

Sunday night, I called the chick I met last week, from this FR:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=57568

Anyhow, we talked on the phone for about 10 minutes, I asked her how her rafting trip went since she mentioned going this last week. Made some small talk and told her we should go out on Wednesday again. She said yes, and I told her I'd see her there.

I showed up at the bar at about 9:30pm and grabbed a beer and a shot and started bullsh*tting with a couple friends. This HB's friends were already at the bar (they usually ride with her, but not tonight). She showed up at about 10:00 and went to talk to her friends a minute, then she came over and said hi.

We grabbed a few more drinks and talked about random stuff, strong EC the whole time, and she's got the same f*cked up sense of humor I do, so it was easy to make her laugh. They had a kickass DJ, but neither one of us felt like dancing. We decided to go to another bar, and she told her friends we were leaving.

She rode with me this time, and we went up to another bar, met some more of her friends and a couple of mine, kicked it and drank some more. She was telling me how she was worried I wasn't going to show up or something (yeah, right), and she told me she was really interested in hanging out with me alot more.

This bar was getting ready to close, so we took off to go get her car....I told her she should come back to my house and chill. She said she thought I'd never ask, so we did just that. She followed me back and we hit the sack, except this time, it was on.

Damn, this chick is a FREAK in the bed....frickin f*cked my socks off. Damn. That was definitely worth the one week wait imposed for 'standards' ;) Wow, um, yeah :D

So, this morning we both took a shower and bailed out to work.

I'm guessing IL is somewhere around 95%. She wants to chill tonight, so I'm going over to her house.

Thoughts? BTW, she mentioned wanting to hang out this weekend, but I don't want to overdo it ;)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cactus, your field reports are money. Keep 'em coming. The reason being is that your field reports are what us "normal guys" experience when it's working. No puffing, exaggerating, or some weird lingo. Just a normal guy and his game when it's on. Good work buddy. ~Zappa
 

cactus3178

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Thanks, bro :)

I'll have to admit that I was skeptical when I first came here, but this stuff works, bottom line. I've gone from WBAFC to RAFC, lol. Long road ahead, but it's nice to look back and see the progress.
 

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OVERWHELM WITH AFFECTION. To the point of smothering.

AND THEN TAKE IT AWAY.

She's a drug addict. And it's you (and your man juice) that's the drug. Get her TOTALLY addicted to you and then just avoid her (but not too long, even junkies can kick the habit).
 
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