FR: Venue Change Gone Bad

[Bigpapa]

@Bigpapa - I'm with you about the hamster wheel. I'll get some proximity from her but it will take some time. FWIW I'm not overthinking this too much and am prob just going to text HRGirl in a few weeks and casually see if she wants to join some social thing that's going on

Keep rocking on until then

Hey proximity, talk to her f2f for a bit

Otherwise she will remain cold as ice

 

[TOneThousand]

@Bigpapa

Yep, I am with you there. I've had similar experiences with this girl before. By the way how long do you usually think is a good period of no contact time with women when you need a reset with them? My gut typically says three weeks but that's just instinct and not battle tested or anything

Thanks bro!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP, even if you "reset" successfully with her, she's still skittish. Her behavior that night was neurotic tbh. That's why I posted that Joy Division video - the singer hanged himself before the band could take off. I assume she's at the top of your range.

 

[TOneThousand]

OP, even if you "reset" successfully with her, she's still skittish. Her behavior that night was neurotic tbh. That's why I posted that Joy Division video - the singer hanged himself before the band could take off. I assume she's at the top of your range.

Fair point, I hear you loud and clear. You're right that her behavior is a bit cra cra, and trust me I wouldn't expect anything different going forward. I didn't know that about Joy Division's singer, that sucks man. Thankfully no one related to this field report is at risk of hanging themselves. It'd be inaccurate to say 'she's at the top of your range' but I don't really spend much time thinking about my range since that would be self limited thinking for me

 

[Bigpapa]

Fair point, I hear you loud and clear. You're right that her behavior is a bit cra cra, and trust me I wouldn't expect anything different going forward.

Her behavior is normal for a woman experiencing your story

Otherwise she would be a tranny

There is not time frame, if you see her just say hello and take it from there till she starts being warm

Don’t go over your way to be friendly, but do not dodge her either. Women just know when you do things that are not natural or social wavy

The average woman is almost as calibrated as social savvy guys