"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: too easy?

lebRambo

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hey guys.

some of you might remember the DR I posted a couple of days ago (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=89361)
about my first date with HBGeek. Now, I don't think that I have EVER during a date gotten more buying signals, so I knew it was on.

I meet her out at the club, and she's all over me. Plus, she's the designated driver, so I know its not cause she's drunk. A couple of her girlfriends were there, and they got all giggly when they saw me, and whispered "She must really like you, all she ever does is talk about you!" :crackup:

Turns out this girl (who at first I thought was kinda shy) is a closet FREAK! She was grabbing my d*ck and rubbing on me and kissing me forcefully and sh*t. She kept trying to lift me up for some reason (me being a 85kg muscle-bound thug and her being this thin little petite girl), and she could always do it. I did the same to her, but I lifted her up, while throwing her into the air like a meter and a half, and then catching her before she hit the ground. She was loving that sh*t. :D

I really could have done no wrong, and I'm CONVINCED that it was because I laid down such great kino and built her attraction during the first date. She was eating up my C+F (which I quickly toned down, seeing that it was not in the least bit needed to boost her IL).

so the take-home message from this I guess is:

- The first date is the crux of the seduction process, it is the MOST critical time (besides actually approaching, of course!). If you make the first date an awesome one, do everything right and lay down awesome kino, you've pretty much done as much you can and the rest is up to her. If it goes your way, expect easy sailing from here on in.


Audaces fortuna iuvat - Fortune favors the bold!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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LeviathanIYG

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Nice post.......... i tottaly agree

Please tell me you f**ked her that night man?
 

lebRambo

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nah man, i didn't wanna push it and f*ck up chances at a LTR, cause i can really see myself being with this girl.

don't judge me too harshly. I'm not a super stud like you, just a regular guy trying to make it. :D
 

LeviathanIYG

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Oh DAM LTR material I know the type man. I got my own waiting for me hahahaha I'm trying my best not to fall for her but i don't know how much longer i can hold out.......

By the way your Priv msg box is full clean it out you lazy c*nt

P.S Yeh I am from Australia ......... Sydney but I'm not Aussie
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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