"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
FR: Talked to this girl and got her number.
- Thread starter ElStud
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Honestly I doubt he is lying because I've spoken to this guy for awhile now, but whether it was true or not, it wouldn't matter so longs you know YOURSELF is out there then that's all that matters...
The reason I'd say it's not a lie is because the way he said he rolled up, the utter verbal content that comes out of my mouth is very similar...I'm actually assuming the "Pokemon" example was something he was referring to that I told him about...I had opened a chick saying "Like pokemon I chose you"...
The whole getting kicked in the nuts and restraining orders is a limiting belief. It's the sub-communication that makes the difference between it flying or not flying, which is why words don't matter. Anyone who has seen me infield knows I have the WORST verbal content in the world. What I'm saying has no thought, it's utter retardedness, but that's what I love so I do it...Aragon034 said:
I don't know how El Stud does it but that time of BS does work...I'm not saying that off of theory...I'm saying that off of personal experience. I don't do direct or indirect...I do random...my random openers have never blown me out because I'm totally amusing myself and I live in my own world.sprint said:
You can't care what people think about you because how the heck will you talk to a chick on the train during rush hour...heck I don't even look for IOIs or IODs because that stuff doesn't matter either...and I'm saying that because I made out with a chick who showed no interest at all...
Honestly whether it was a actual good or bad approach...he still approached...she was obviously interested to some extent at that moment because of something. YES he does have to call her up...sprint said:
There is a fine line of what you can and can't do but that LINE is so far that most people don't even know how far that line is. The easiest example is when guys go in for the kiss and think if he gets rejected it's over little does he know he can try 5-6 times and eventually move the interaction forward...Heck there is an instructor guy who wasn't getting any good reactions from a chick for 6 hours but he stayed in and plowed...eventually he ended up having sex with her...
My advice to all is just go out there and push it to the limit, find your own boundaries and your own style...because I know my style isn't congruent to many...
Let's say ElStud got a girlfriend (not that this would ever happen) and somehow got laid (not that this would ever happen). Do you think he would come on here and post about every time they had sex?
Just a thought.
Not that this would ever happen though.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Why would he need a gf to get laid?? He's in college. I don't understand his whole approaching chicks, get numbers routine. He's in college, why would anyone have to do things the proper way like this? If you're in college, you meets chicks thru your circle of friends or acquaintances, or you go to a lot of drunken parties and alcohol works wonders sometimes for getting sex. He should be going for the drunken hookup or one night stand imo. If the goal is getting laid, then get laid and don't focus on getting a gf first....that can take a lot of work....young_gun said: