"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
FR: Talked to a table of girls at lunch.
- Thread starter ElStud
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
They seemed to be taking the p!ss out of you......
Reads to me that the were laughing AT you rather than with you.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
No-one post after this!!!!!
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So El Stud, do you remember what I advised you to do last time? Don't call girls whoers, strippers, etc. unless they know you're interested and kidding...other than that, you should stop "vibing" and try being direct. Just ask one out on a date. You're posts are beginning to depress me, so make some progress already!
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Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Hey! What did we just get through telling yall?Alkali said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I didn't call her a stripper. Plus lol I don't think she was too offended due to the fact she asked me what I did over the weekend later. And I don't know about you, but I usually don't really have to be interested in a girl to approach her. Most of the time I just approach for practice.Alkali said:
Could it be that someone else is catching on to GWA? Seriously though, the fact that he's a well known troll who gives advice and doesn't actually use it or test it, doesn't help his case.
AfRoSwiss-Disiac
Don Juan
Another one of his favorite lines...oh well takes one troll to know oneElStud said: