"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Subway

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While returning from work I noticed a cute HB7.5 with an asian friend at the subway station. I didn't approach her because for some reason I felt panick and shock. The train came and I sat in a double seat near the window. Guess what, the hottie sat next to me! And her asian friend right in front of me. She began looking at things in my direction as if looking out of the window on my side. I faced her, established EC and said HI. We had a small chitchat, like what's your name, what college do you go to... etc. I talked equally to the hottie and her Asian girlfriend. JUST as I was nearing the phone close, the asian chick said "We got to get off at this stop". The hottie and Asian chick said bye to me and left the train before I could say anything. D'OH! Please give me your insights of how you would've handled this. During that time I haven't used C&F at all as I was barely coming up with things to say to them without being boring.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
While returning from work I noticed a cute HB7.5 with an asian friend at the subway station. I didn't approach her because for some reason I felt panick and shock. The train came and I sat in a double seat near the window. Guess what, the hottie sat next to me! And her asian friend right in front of me. She began looking at things in my direction as if looking out of the window on my side. I faced her, established EC and said HI. We had a small chitchat, like what's your name, what college do you go to... etc. I talked equally to the hottie and her Asian girlfriend. JUST as I was nearing the phone close, the asian chick said "We got to get off at this stop". The hottie and Asian chick said bye to me and left the train before I could say anything. D'OH! Please give me your insights of how you would've handled this. During that time I haven't used C&F at all as I was barely coming up with things to say to them without being boring.

Hm thats a tough one, especially if they were dashing off. YOu could of tried hey, let me get your number really quick. but other than that just tough luck id say.
 

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I've never been in this situation but hers my arm chair theory on how to play this:

1]Attack her as soon as she sits next to you.

2]Ask her where is she heading. This allows you to know how much time you have to spit game.

3]Sparringly Involve the friend in the conversation.

4]Ask if she has a bf in the manner that your style of PU calls for.

5]Go for the digit 1-2 stops before hers.


That is my guess as to how to play this one.
 

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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY

4]Ask if she has a bf in the manner that your style of PU calls for.
if she doesn't tell u about a boyfriend, assume she hasn't got one.
she'll let u know if she does.
 

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The problem with subway rides is that unless you are both on it for a while (at least 5-6 stops), you can't really build rapport. Tough break.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by dementia
Was that an empty train? Maybe one of em liked you and forced the other to sit near you. Otherwise why would they choose that seat out of them all.

Id go that route the same week, if their IL is high enough you might catch em again, in which case you have to sarge em good and hard.

Yea, i wouldve just yelled "hey let me get your number before you walk out of my life forever!" lol
I'm certain the hottie liked me and sat next to me intentionally. Or maybe by the end of convo the hottie gave her friend a cue to pull out the troops...
 
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