"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: "Sry bro, not every guy can dance with 4 girls!"

ChrizZ

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Went out clubbing.

Club was almost empty.

I decide to open a 4 set on the dance floor. They pretended like they were having fun and had the classical b!tch look. I start grinding with one of the girls. Suddenly her girlfriends completely bust out in laughter trying to confuse me. I didn't give a sh!t I just kept on dancing. Then one of her girlfriends pulls her away and they all try to blow me off and some dude that wanted to play captain save a hoe that had been ljbfs by the girls comes up to me and tries to amog me. He says "haha, sorry bro. Not every guy can dance with four hot girls!"

I just completely ignore him. I didn't even look at him so he just stood there like a chode while I was dancing.

Then I just grabbed some girl that I made eye contact with earlier. After 10 seconds I start making out with her.

Then suddenly some chick that I had fvcked earlier starts to dance with me.

Again, make out after 10 seconds.

She was dancing with one of her friends. I just pull every girl around me into me and lean on the wall. I ended up dancing at the wall with 6 girls. Then I made out with two of them later on, right before the club closed.

At the exit I see the chode again with the four girls. As I pass them their jaws drop to the floor like they just saw Jesus. I give the guy a quick glance and say: "Sorry bro, not ever guy can make out with four hot girls...":rock:

All in all I had a good night :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChrizZ said:
Went out clubbing.

Club was almost empty.

I decide to open a 4 set on the dance floor. They pretended like they were having fun and had the classical b!tch look. I start grinding with one of the girls. Suddenly her girlfriends completely bust out in laughter trying to confuse me. I didn't give a sh!t I just kept on dancing. Then one of her girlfriends pulls her away and they all try to blow me off and some dude that wanted to play captain save a hoe that had been ljbfs by the girls comes up to me and tries to amog me. He says "haha, sorry bro. Not every guy can dance with four hot girls!"

I just completely ignore him. I didn't even look at him so he just stood there like a chode while I was dancing.

Then I just grabbed some girl that I made eye contact with earlier. After 10 seconds I start making out with her.

Then suddenly some chick that I had fvcked earlier starts to dance with me.

Again, make out after 10 seconds.

She was dancing with one of her friends. I just pull every girl around me into me and lean on the wall. I ended up dancing at the wall with 6 girls. Then I made out with two of them later on, right before the club closed.

At the exit I see the chode again with the four girls. As I pass them their jaws drop to the floor like they just saw Jesus. I give the guy a quick glance and say: "Sorry bro, not ever guy can make out with four hot girls...":rock:

All in all I had a good night :up:

Are you really 19?:crazy:
 

BeyondCharm

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Haha, nice one...

This last weekend I was out at the club and it was the very end of the night and me and my buddy decided to go screw around with these two russian girls that think they're untouchables. They have their noses in the air and I walk up to one of them and say "Excuse me, you're polish right?" and she looks at me for a second and without saying a word turns away. I then say to her "Are you always a ***** to guys who are cooler than you?" and she looks back astonished, opens her mouth to say something and I walked off. Some dude saw it happen and cracks some joke about her blowing me off.

I have fun that's why I did it. Obviously this story is not about me landing the super hottest girl with some smooth line, my point is that approaching and having is cool, and there's more to having a good time then always chasing. Sometime it's fun to simply banter. And did I get numbers that night? Absolutely. Did I want the russian girls? It should be obvious from my approach that I didn't.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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