"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: "Sry bro, not every guy can dance with 4 girls!"

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Went out clubbing.

Club was almost empty.

I decide to open a 4 set on the dance floor. They pretended like they were having fun and had the classical b!tch look. I start grinding with one of the girls. Suddenly her girlfriends completely bust out in laughter trying to confuse me. I didn't give a sh!t I just kept on dancing. Then one of her girlfriends pulls her away and they all try to blow me off and some dude that wanted to play captain save a hoe that had been ljbfs by the girls comes up to me and tries to amog me. He says "haha, sorry bro. Not every guy can dance with four hot girls!"

I just completely ignore him. I didn't even look at him so he just stood there like a chode while I was dancing.

Then I just grabbed some girl that I made eye contact with earlier. After 10 seconds I start making out with her.

Then suddenly some chick that I had fvcked earlier starts to dance with me.

Again, make out after 10 seconds.

She was dancing with one of her friends. I just pull every girl around me into me and lean on the wall. I ended up dancing at the wall with 6 girls. Then I made out with two of them later on, right before the club closed.

At the exit I see the chode again with the four girls. As I pass them their jaws drop to the floor like they just saw Jesus. I give the guy a quick glance and say: "Sorry bro, not ever guy can make out with four hot girls...":rock:

All in all I had a good night :up:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Wouldn't you like to know? ;)
ChrizZ said:
Went out clubbing.

Club was almost empty.

I decide to open a 4 set on the dance floor. They pretended like they were having fun and had the classical b!tch look. I start grinding with one of the girls. Suddenly her girlfriends completely bust out in laughter trying to confuse me. I didn't give a sh!t I just kept on dancing. Then one of her girlfriends pulls her away and they all try to blow me off and some dude that wanted to play captain save a hoe that had been ljbfs by the girls comes up to me and tries to amog me. He says "haha, sorry bro. Not every guy can dance with four hot girls!"

I just completely ignore him. I didn't even look at him so he just stood there like a chode while I was dancing.

Then I just grabbed some girl that I made eye contact with earlier. After 10 seconds I start making out with her.

Then suddenly some chick that I had fvcked earlier starts to dance with me.

Again, make out after 10 seconds.

She was dancing with one of her friends. I just pull every girl around me into me and lean on the wall. I ended up dancing at the wall with 6 girls. Then I made out with two of them later on, right before the club closed.

At the exit I see the chode again with the four girls. As I pass them their jaws drop to the floor like they just saw Jesus. I give the guy a quick glance and say: "Sorry bro, not ever guy can make out with four hot girls...":rock:

All in all I had a good night :up:
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Are you really 19?:crazy:
 
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Haha, nice one...

This last weekend I was out at the club and it was the very end of the night and me and my buddy decided to go screw around with these two russian girls that think they're untouchables. They have their noses in the air and I walk up to one of them and say "Excuse me, you're polish right?" and she looks at me for a second and without saying a word turns away. I then say to her "Are you always a ***** to guys who are cooler than you?" and she looks back astonished, opens her mouth to say something and I walked off. Some dude saw it happen and cracks some joke about her blowing me off.

I have fun that's why I did it. Obviously this story is not about me landing the super hottest girl with some smooth line, my point is that approaching and having is cool, and there's more to having a good time then always chasing. Sometime it's fun to simply banter. And did I get numbers that night? Absolutely. Did I want the russian girls? It should be obvious from my approach that I didn't.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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