"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal_water

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So a group of us went out last night and while we were in a bar pre drinking before the clubs a couple of girls joined us. I'm not sure how that happened.

Me and 2 friends were at a table and my other 2 friends came back from the bar to our table with these 2 girls.

There seemed to be the initial awkward questions, "what do you do for work etc"? But before long one of the girls had relocated to my lap. I didn't even have to try anything and I had a girl on my lap who kept turning round to make out with me while I ran my hands up and down her legs. Her friend didn't look best pleased.

We moved on to the club, and I basically spent the rest of the night grinding/making out with this girl. And she was down for everything in the club. She kept putting her hand down my trousers and massaging my d1ck so I kept putting my hands down her trousers and squeezing her b*t and playing with her pu**y and tits and she was loving it. Her friend still wasn't best pleased lol.

I kept leading her away from the rest of our group to see if she would come with me alone, and she did gladly every time, which I was pretty happy about because she was a real tongue warrior.

Her friend kept tracking us down each and every time though to co*k block.

She kept saying "I love you" over and over along with "I want to have sex with you".

Then my friends wanted to leave, I tried to go back with the girl to the b+b they were staying at but her friend was still resisting and the girl suddenly turned cold so it didn't happen in the end and I still remained a virgin at the end of the night lol.

I'm not down about it or anything though as I had a good night and its the closest I've got yet. To be honest it was good just to not see all of my friends pull effortlessly while I got nothing for once. For it to be the other way around was very refreshing.

I don't know what attracted the girl to me in the first place, whether it was just luck (right time right place) or what thats what I need to find a way of replicating lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

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