"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR, sort of...

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So a group of us went out last night and while we were in a bar pre drinking before the clubs a couple of girls joined us. I'm not sure how that happened.

Me and 2 friends were at a table and my other 2 friends came back from the bar to our table with these 2 girls.

There seemed to be the initial awkward questions, "what do you do for work etc"? But before long one of the girls had relocated to my lap. I didn't even have to try anything and I had a girl on my lap who kept turning round to make out with me while I ran my hands up and down her legs. Her friend didn't look best pleased.

We moved on to the club, and I basically spent the rest of the night grinding/making out with this girl. And she was down for everything in the club. She kept putting her hand down my trousers and massaging my d1ck so I kept putting my hands down her trousers and squeezing her b*t and playing with her pu**y and tits and she was loving it. Her friend still wasn't best pleased lol.

I kept leading her away from the rest of our group to see if she would come with me alone, and she did gladly every time, which I was pretty happy about because she was a real tongue warrior.

Her friend kept tracking us down each and every time though to co*k block.

She kept saying "I love you" over and over along with "I want to have sex with you".

Then my friends wanted to leave, I tried to go back with the girl to the b+b they were staying at but her friend was still resisting and the girl suddenly turned cold so it didn't happen in the end and I still remained a virgin at the end of the night lol.

I'm not down about it or anything though as I had a good night and its the closest I've got yet. To be honest it was good just to not see all of my friends pull effortlessly while I got nothing for once. For it to be the other way around was very refreshing.

I don't know what attracted the girl to me in the first place, whether it was just luck (right time right place) or what thats what I need to find a way of replicating lol.
 

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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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