"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: sorry bro, this chick's MINE!

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hey guys. second FR. Getting more confident ;)

so, at a 21st last night. I know the guy a little bit, but mostly know him through my other friend, who does the same course as me at uni. so, I get there, I know maybe 3 people there, but I start chatting with randoms, having a great night (confidence was sky high). So I spot this HB8 with a seat free next to her. I go over and introduce myself, find out a little about her. Turns out she is studying nursing. So I give her a hard time about nurses being medical school rejects and sh*t. She was laughing and playfully punching and rubbing my arm. So a good song comes on and I get up to dance (deliberately without asking her to join me). She watches me for a little while, then gets up to dance a little away from me, watching me as if hoping to get invited to dance with me. :D Oh, i love it....

Eventually I tell her i'll dance with her, since she's been angling for it so hard. I just say, i'll be back in a little while. She's like 'okay!' all happy and sh*t. So I go outside to smoke a cigar with some guys I had met there, and we're having this great convo when she comes out looking all hurt and says to me 'I thought you promised me a dance..." I smile, take another drag on my Montague No.2 (excellent cigar :D ) and pass it to my mate. I grab her arm, pull her closer to me, and look into her eyes and say "If you're that desperate, i'll indulge you." She punches me again and leads me to the dance floor. So we're dancing, and I just slip my phone out of my pocket, pass it to her without a word, and she smiles and punches in her number.

So, later, i'm talking with some of my boys and she's there too, when this guy comes up and hugs her and says something in her ear. Well, it turns out that this guy is her boyfriend, but kinda...not. He's really weird...like, they don't kiss, they don't do anything together...its like a relationship of convenience. So I ask my friend about this, and he says that he's not even sure Alex (her bf) even knows what to do. This guy is so AFC he isn't even INTERESTED in sex. So I figure this is an easy steal. She smiled at me after her bf left as well, so thats a good sign.

Kinda disappointing really. A little TOO easy (not being ****y or anything, everyone here would have thought that too). You boys know what i'm talking about: a lot of the thrill is in the chase huh? :)

So i'm gonna call her in a few days.

Okay: critiques, suggestions, etc. Post away!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HAHAHAHAHA:D Classic Mate. I can Just Imagine....

Chick: I'm sorry but we need time apart....
AFC: NOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!
*Me in NT*: What the hell was that? :confused:

She's like putty in your hands mate.....go for it......

~Peace Out
 

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u couldve at least told homeboy about this sight.

Well played evening, u did everything right. congrats.

I like how you werent afraid to leave her on the dance floor. I know the games we play with women might seem mean. But they love it so.

Dont be puzzy whipped Craig....You gotta reverse it.....Whip that puzzy BANG BANG BANG
 

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cheers guys. I'll post a follow up after I contact her. Probably tomorrow or something (always like to wait at least 2 days)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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UPDATE: says she's attracted to me but doesnt want to leave her boyfriend. Oh well, at least I know what I have is working. :cool:
 

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Damn, I thought I was the only one who used the "hand them your cell phone to get their number" routine.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Damn, I thought I was the only one who used the "hand them your cell phone to get their number" routine.
haha! sorry bro, but great minds think alike! :D
 

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Hey man nice work!

She says she likes you but doesn't want to leave her boyfriend.

Hmm...I am in the exact same situation with the girl from Saturday. HB She came and visited me at work today, and made a point of saying she was with her bf yesterday. She never said she didn't want to leave him...but I don't want her to.

I'm trying to turn her into a ONS or maybe a few night stand, but she's hard to get a hold of.

What i'm thinking now is to get her to come out with me to do something innocent like pool or something.(What you're bf doesn't let you meet new friends.) and then structuring an opportunity to be alone where her bf would never know about it.

That's the only thing I can think of.

If you have any other ideas let me know.



animal crackers
 

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thats an idea man, but make sure you find out about her bf a little. If he's a muscle-bound thug with a mean jealous streak, i'd say she isn't worth getting your ass beat over.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by lebRambo
thats an idea man, but make sure you find out about her bf a little. If he's a muscle-bound thug with a mean jealous streak, i'd say she isn't worth getting your ass beat over.
Word!


Sometimes these lil birds have a way of doing this shyt just to see her caveman boyfriend come out and smash people.

And the entire time you can bet your ass she will be watching doing this..

:cheer: :woo: :cheer: :woo: :cheer: :cheer:
 
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