"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: so yea i went on a date

scribblec

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i met this girl through a mutual friend and today was the date day, i was originally going to go bowling but i ended up being half an hour late so the date didnt start off too well :p

but then i initiated a hug straight away for kino and for her to smell me (ultraviolet ****ing amazing) after that she would be close to me the whole way, so were at the station now and i can see shes a bit pissed cos i was late so i try to break the ice with the 5 questions game :p im like if u win u can be mad at me and ill leave now but if i win u have to think nothing of my lateness :p

i won :D had her laughing and in a better mood, it was then windy so i held her so she wouldnt be affected cos she seemd cold, so were like that for a bit and she cant stay away from my neck and who can blame her :p

so we ended up going cinema on a first date anyway and it was good because she was all over me and started kissing my neck and ****
so i kissed her a bit then pulled back, we then went to get a coffee while she was calling her friend cos we were just in the middle of this place and she was holding me tight, so i go there now and we kiss a bit more then we have to go i give her another kiss and pull away and i can tell she wanted more :p hug her and leave. through out the whole date i would comment on everything around us and she was laughing throughout. but what i reckon helped the most was that i looked sharp and i smelt nice the rest fell into place, she texts me after saying she had a good day :p and in her mind im already her boyfriend, the way her friends were writing on facebook anyway which is a good thing because she turned out to be much nicer then i thought which had me a bit oneitis but then i thought **** it :p
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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scribblec

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i posted this in the wrong forum can someone please move this to general discussion?
 

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And... you're just here to gloat about your date?
 

scribblec

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not gloat, it was a fr maybe it could be of help to someone else, it was posted in the wrong forum and no moderator has bothered to move it since i posted it.

personally i like reading other peoples FR so i thought i might aswell post one seeing as i had the opportunity to do so. there have been developments but i wont share incase u think im further gloating...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zaraza

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congrats, I dont see this as gloating. Its always nice to hear/read about someone living their life and enjoying it.

Good job man.
 
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