"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

FR: so yea i went on a date

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
i met this girl through a mutual friend and today was the date day, i was originally going to go bowling but i ended up being half an hour late so the date didnt start off too well :p

but then i initiated a hug straight away for kino and for her to smell me (ultraviolet ****ing amazing) after that she would be close to me the whole way, so were at the station now and i can see shes a bit pissed cos i was late so i try to break the ice with the 5 questions game :p im like if u win u can be mad at me and ill leave now but if i win u have to think nothing of my lateness :p

i won :D had her laughing and in a better mood, it was then windy so i held her so she wouldnt be affected cos she seemd cold, so were like that for a bit and she cant stay away from my neck and who can blame her :p

so we ended up going cinema on a first date anyway and it was good because she was all over me and started kissing my neck and ****
so i kissed her a bit then pulled back, we then went to get a coffee while she was calling her friend cos we were just in the middle of this place and she was holding me tight, so i go there now and we kiss a bit more then we have to go i give her another kiss and pull away and i can tell she wanted more :p hug her and leave. through out the whole date i would comment on everything around us and she was laughing throughout. but what i reckon helped the most was that i looked sharp and i smelt nice the rest fell into place, she texts me after saying she had a good day :p and in her mind im already her boyfriend, the way her friends were writing on facebook anyway which is a good thing because she turned out to be much nicer then i thought which had me a bit oneitis but then i thought **** it :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
i posted this in the wrong forum can someone please move this to general discussion?
 

nek08

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 31, 2009
Messages
29
Reaction score
0
And... you're just here to gloat about your date?
 

scribblec

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2006
Messages
487
Reaction score
10
not gloat, it was a fr maybe it could be of help to someone else, it was posted in the wrong forum and no moderator has bothered to move it since i posted it.

personally i like reading other peoples FR so i thought i might aswell post one seeing as i had the opportunity to do so. there have been developments but i wont share incase u think im further gloating...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Zaraza

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 6, 2005
Messages
282
Reaction score
2
Location
Oregon, USA
congrats, I dont see this as gloating. Its always nice to hear/read about someone living their life and enjoying it.

Good job man.
 
Top