"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FR : Smoke Break Girl

christz

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I'm always in the learning process so let me cover really quick a field report and tell me how I coulda swung this in my favor.

I got on break from work walk outside to have a cigarette see some people I usually smoke with and they offer me a seat, I notice an hot blonde maybe hb8 who is also sitting down. Never seen her before so whatever.

I start talking to the older woman I know from previous smoke breaks ask her how work is and such and then the blonde completely interjects.

"is this like an employee smoking area?"

Immediately I take this as a sign she wants me to talk to her.. so I get to work.

Me "yeah, actually its against he rules for you to sit here and smoke with us"
Her "oh really, well this was the only place I could go"
Me "its ok we'll let you slide on this one"
Her "oh thanks!" *laughing*

I ask her about where she works, she tells me where she lives she tells me she asked where I work. I paused for a little before answering and told her. then I continue the sarge.

Me "you know smoking is bad for you.."
Her *laughing* "really? oh I thought this was my daily vitamin intake for the day!"
Me *laughing* "so what's your name?"
Her "Danielle"

I noticed she didn't ask mine.. which keyed me in that maybe she wasn't as interested as I was.. BUT I threw it in there anyway.

Me "mines christz"

She gets done with her cig and goes well you don't have anything good for me where you work.. so I guess I won't be seeing you later it was good meeting you though!

annnnnnnnnnnnd I'm out.. the guy listening to me was impressed to say the least but laughed that I couldn't make a power move to get her number. My question is Could I have gotten this chicks number? I didn't have any buying signs like hand in hair.. kino or anything mind you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ratisson

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you'll never know if u dont ask. So i guess u'll never know.
 
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